why do guys like to watch?

[Damien]

So i was thinking of a different aspect of our kink, why do you think guys enjoy watching CBT?

its been covered why guys like getting busted - the thrill, the pain-from-pleasure, the sensory deprivation, and many others.

but i have a theory on why guys like watching BB. why would, for example, a straight guy enjoy watching videos like on 'cbttrample' or 'underherheels' websites (which is a closeup of the guys junk being crushed under feet)?

In ancient times, there were no paternity tests, no birth control - in fact the easiest way for birth control was to castrate (one of the first and most simple surgeries recorded) a man.  Across cultures captured slaves, often from conquered towns,  were sometimes Eunich'ed (cant think of a better word haha) so they couldnt reproduce.  The alpha male in a tribe may also castrate his opponents, making sure they were unable to bear children instead of him.

Perhaps we subconsciously watch bb and are aroused by the thought of another man being sterilized by having his balls beaten (even though this isnt the case, it goes back to images of dominance), and place ourselves in the alpha male position of the female choosing us over the 'loser' getting busted.  Or that this is one less competitor for a mate (he's loosing his balls and we still have ours) kind of thing?

any other theories?  i havent seen a topic like this discussed before :)

[Dave]

I think it's moreso to watch the girl doing it and imagine it happening to us. Maybe gather some new ideas, techniques, styles and/ or adventures to put in place with our own partners in place of just genaric kicking. I know that since I watched that spreader bar clip you posted I'm in the market for one as the wife has these awesome new boots that are pretty brutal to endure. I've taken well over 100 kicks in session with her several times and often 30 to 40 without going down but since she's gotten these boots, everytime She wears them for a bust I can't seem to stay verticle for more than four or five and then when I get up, I find I'm right "flinchy" and usually back down after every two or three. That spreader bar concept was a stroke of genius and if I get one it should allow me to push those limits a fair bit further by eliminating my choice in the matter. I think the clips can be great to showcase how extreme some dudes can take it and perhaps encourage us in our competitive nature to look to see how close we can come to that level or if we could potentially exceed some of levels various clips take things to in our own practice.

For me at least, it's also become a bit of a hobby. I don't really go around advertising or discussing how much I enjoy ballbusting with everyone I know, so when I'm not being busted by my wife, often times watching clips are the next best thing, not so much for getting off, I mean they're usually sexy to watch on some level but I can also watch em for entertainment, a laugh, to gather new ideas and just to observe and enjoy the attitudes and personas of the various busters without masterbating or losing all control. There are very few clips I would jerk off to completion to. There are however a great deal of clips that will generate a new fantasy that I will chase or will make me hard and horny enough to go persue the Mrs for some fufillment shortly after viewing. In some cases it may just be that watching some ball busting clips can make for a more enjoyable and entertaing time passer than playing a video game or watching a movie or a sports game because I am just more interested in it than most other things. It's great to live vicariously through some of these guys like Slave Andy, Wu, yourself who get busted in so many ways by so many women. It's fun to share my own adventures with like minded individuals who are few and far between if not for great little communities like we have here and it's nice to keep on top of the clips being posted and shared in that community and to support and encourage those creating that content as much as possible by watching and commenting on the clips too.

[Zwyx]

I like to watch it because it's basically porn for me. Porn for normal people is watching other people have sex, right? So porn for me, who does not find sex appealing, watches others do what I consider appealing.

[Tender Boy]

I enjoy watching the woman in her element, expressing her power, and doing her thing - busting balls.  I find women to be fascinating in those moments, so the next best thing to experiencing it directly myself, is to watch others engaging in BB, and at least I can watch the woman do her thing and marvel at how awesome and powerful and beautiful she is.  

[1cgzoillxszy0]

It's more about watching the woman, and being turned on wishing it were us...especially if the woman is attractive and has a sexy voice...it's really all about the fantasy...we live vicariously through the guy being busted by a beautiful woman!

[Cowboy Frank]

Your theory is interesting.

[R-Gii]

For me it has nothing to do with dominance really, but more to do guy and lady differences and how it's so embarrassing, and being brought to the ground forces one to acknowledge that embarrassing aspect of themself in front of a girl who'd otherwise be too self-conscious to acknowledge what she knows about guys, but is now unable to stop herself from laughing.

There's also something about it, the idea, oh, I like that character, I relate to them, I might even like to be them, and suddenly they get bashed, and you realize how easily that could have been you if you'd been there instead, and you realize, "no thank you, I'll pass" and it's the idea that in order to live that story, the character had to live through excruciating agony as well. Like being the Dragon Warrior sound pretty neat, but would you want to get bashed in that training contraption first in order to get there? If Po would've known, he might've thought twice about wanting to be himself, and fortunately for us, we don't have to, we can just see that and get to all the good stuff without having to face that pain, Po doesn't, it will only happen after he' brought to his knees brutally. And I think it's that idea of almost wanting to imagine being them, but suddenly being repelled that really gets o me.

[Donald Veracrow]

I personally do not watch other peoples’ BB material, and instead only make my own or have private, unfilmed sessions with women. I did when I was much younger, but I’d say this faded right about the time I stopped watching porn entirely, basically late teens, early 20’s.

there’s nothing attractive to me about seeing another dude have sex/BB. That’s something I prefer to experience myself.

[playfight]

some guys love sex but never watch porn, it is the same

[Donald Veracrow]

Porn is virtual cucking.

[Harald]

Indeed very interesting question. I agree with your theory that destroying other male's testicles eliminates a rival in the struggle to mate with females.

Another point that applies to me is that a woman who destroys a guy's testicles - or puts him into a state of excruciating pain - exudes a huge amount of power. And this power is very attractive and sexy.