OK ladies, what questions do you hate being asked the most while in chatrooms?

[greeneyedsusan]

For me it's when a guy asks me when was the last time I busted a guy in the balls, even if it's been only three weeks, they'll respond with "Why so long? or "That's a long time ago". When in all reality it's pretty frigin recent, even a bust that's five months old is fairly recent. Girls aren't busting machines, we don't go around kicking balls on a daily basis. So the next time a girl says two month ago, you can respond by say, "Oh, very cool" or something very similar. Thank you and have a nice day.

[Alice B.]

I really hate when guys I don't know (hint, hint) call me Hun, Darling, Sweetie among other names. Why can't they just call me Alice?

[Sarah Levy]

I don`t like it when a guy asks me how many times I have busted Balls, like I keep a score card. I do very much enjoy busting balls and have several male friends who also enjoy it but I don`t do it on a daily basis, sorry but it is quite tiring. Women who are into ball busting are a rare group and I do enjoy talking about it. Guys please give me chance to read my mail before sending me an I`M. I have not come across any one rude as of yet.

[Katie Page]

Super obviously questions obviously deriving from like, blind horniness. 

[Ballbuster_X]

Two that drive me nuts are "What would you do to my nuts" and "I volunteer my balls for you." First, ask a question like...what do you think are the fun ways to bust... That would generate the same answer as the first question. 

[Tender Boy]

The women here on the site are wonderful, and I totally understand and agree with why they're annoyed, but this thread pretty much sums up why I rarely try to chat with anyone.  :(

[Ballbuster_X]

How do you mean?

[Tender Boy]

Well, I meant that when a person is already suspicious even before I've had a chance to say anything, it's hard to get a conversation going.

But I just recently had a really great conversation with someone here who changed my mind about all that.  :)

[Jax]

I totally agree, I mean a lot of the girls have pointed to a lot of phrases that are just guys treating them like they're meat and are trying to force a conversation into ballbusting just so they can get off.  Its rude, disrespectful, disappointing, etc... but as a guy that doesn't do that I still find it challenging to strike up a conversation online.  Whether we agree with it or not there's more than one or two people who roll their eyes at how boring it is to start off a convo with "hi" "how are you?" which may not be groundbreaking but at least it's not a jpeg of a guy's junk. Frankly the only thing I know about someone who pops up on this website is that they either have a shared interest in bb or they are into cb, but since that's pretty bold and inappropriate to jump right into a sexually charged topic (whether its on a PG-13 forum or not the conversation is still inherently sexual in nature) with a complete stranger we can't talk about the one thing we know we could have in common.  So lets say I open the chat and I see who's there... now I may not be on very often and I do like chatting with cool guys like Smoo but I cant pretend that I don't really enjoy talking to the women, so maybe I'll open their profile to read something about them just so I can find a different commonality that we can launch a conversation around. But then I've heard several girls describe how overwhelming the number of chat requests they get so its almost like they cant even log on without getting bombarded with requests which probably feels like getting harassed.  So now I'm thinking, well I don't want to just be another guy piling on and stressing this girl out, but at the same time she's got no reason to initiate a chat with me so basically my preference to not potentially offend/harass the ladies (by starting a chat when I see someone pop up) ends up meaning that 99% of the time I just don't try to say anything.  So I'm just reaffirming the point behind this whole thread, communication between the sexes that are complete strangers (who often don't want to reveal very much about themselves in their profile) can often feel like you're walking on eggshells.

[3nzczeluawb2k]

I agree 100%.I can hold a normal conversation with a woman, but I find it hard to talk/ask questions without becoming "creepy" or asking the same questions you ladies hear all the time. So what's the best way to talk about bb without being "one of those guys"?

[Nicholas S]

I´d like to ask - what else do you girls hate or dislike being asked?

[2swollen]

This is a great thread and needs to pop up on the thread again!

[T]

I think one of the key things men miss on here is the people they are trying to talk to are just that...people.

If you want something then you have to provide something to the other person to make it worth their while. If women are joining this site it's probably because they want to talk with like-minded individuals. (Who'd have thought???) If you want very specific things for your own personal enjoyment, then you're going to have to make it worth her while by paying her.