Lil Suzie's ballbusting interview

[Lil Suzy]

I'm a lot more confident i my fetish and I'm willing to answer anything you ask.

[Tender Boy]

Once you've got them naked, do you ever kick their balls while you still have your shoes or boots on?

[Lil Suzy]

They or i remover the briefs fairly quickly and i usually keep my shoes on until the first drop which can be closer to the ten minutes mark. So yes, they get kicked with my shoes for a little while. After that first drop, i remove the shoes and go bare feet.

[Andy Lee]

What do you prefer, kicking them with your shoes because you know it will hurt more, or going barefoot, so you can actually feel his balls with your foot? Am guessing you like a bit of both, hence doing both, haha.

[Lil Suzy]

Well, boots are my favorite : ) but as you said, i like both.

[Tender Boy]

I love how you mix things up.  That's really sexy.

I've been kicked only by bare feet.  That's probably my favorite but I'd love to try shoes or boots, especially when the kicker feels sexy in what she's wearing.

I wonder what hurts more though.  Shoes/boots are harder, but bare feet probably let the woman have better balance and power with the kick.  So... hard to say.  What do you think?

I also love how you plan to drop your partner, succeed, and plan your busting around the event like that.  You're very much in control and that's awesome.

[Lil Suzy]

True about shoes being harder, but high heels are a bit more clumsy so we can't get our best kick in especially with really thin high heels. Kick is definitely more feminine in heels, so i like that. I seriously think i could do better with bare feet, i never really tried my hardest this way, but the footing/balance is more sure obviously. I think my husband got my worst bare foot kick from what i remember : ) 

Yes, my guys drop eventually, it's usually around the 8 to 10 minute mark with those mid level hits.

[Johnny BB Goode]

I completely agree Suzy, kicks are MUCH more feminine and therefore MUCH more sexy in high heels. I had a buddy that really liked to dress up in sexy clothes for work and nearly all occasions. She always looked very sexy and feminine this way. She also preferred to do her ball kicking this way, despite the awkwardness of kicking in them. Even if her kicks were half as hard in heels she knew that eventually she would achieve her goal of my complete inability to take any more. In the end, it made our sessions more sexy and last much longer.

[Tender Boy]

That makes a lot of sense.

When your bb buddies first drop from your kicks with shoes/boots on, are they down for just a moment or do they need a little while to recover?

What was the story with the "worst barefoot kick" you gave your husband?  (I think he's definitely feeling a little of that lasting ego correction like we talked about).  Was that the beach house where you had him down and rolling around in pain?  (And that is so great, BTW, I love that).

I notice you say you haven't tried your hardest with bare feet.  Does that mean you have gone your hardest with your heels or boots on?  Can you tell us more about that?  Maybe those were with kicks to deserving jerks, not your bb buddies?

[Tender Boy]

@ Lil Suzy

Actually punched, i punched him in the balls each time i hit him. I don't know, this was many years ago. I'm sure he was embarrassed by it and didn't want to bring it up. Probably worried I was going to bring it up around his friends. Funny thing is, now I would bring it up just to rub it in.

I agree, he felt humiliated by being racked and dropped by his girlfriend and was too embarrassed to talk about it later, even to argue about it.

I originally asked because I wondered how his ego was able to deal (or not) with being ballbusted and basically overpowered and totally owned by his girlfriend like that.

What you did there, Lil Suzy, is awesome.  :)   I just wondered how he coped.  I think I am a nice guy (not an a-hole boyfriend) but if my gf racked me so thoroughly like that I think I would be embarrassed afterward too.

I guess there are a few stages to it.

First is your first or foot or knee hitting our balls.  It's a hard hit so the pain is an instantaneous shock and it's totally disabling.  In just a moment we go from "normal" to overwhelming pain in our testicles.  It takes over our bodies.  We can't think or speak or act.  We just crash helplessly down.

Next we are down on our knees or maybe curled up on the ground, helpless.  Our brains are struggling to process what just happened.  We're aware that you just busted our balls, with a punch or knee or whatever, but we can't think much past that simple fact.  Our thoughts are too scattered to feel embarrassment yet, just pain and vulnerability.  Our balls are in agony and we have no control over anything, just trying to breathe and cope with how intense it feels.

Stage three is after a minute or two where we're starting to recover just a little.  We can't get up yet, our balls still hurt too much.  But we've (kind of) caught our breath, and maybe can speak a few words coherently besides "AAaaaaHHH" or "My BALLS!"  LOL.   Now is when we begin to feel the emotions as well as the physical pain.  Depending on the situation, it can start to feel humiliating for us.  We notice you standing over us, possibly smiling or clapping or celebrating.  Or at the very least seeming very satisfied with the result of the ball bust.  You are empowered and we are not.   You got us good.  Really good.  Right in the balls.  We're down and helpless, feeling emasculated and there is nothing we can do or say about it. 

That's a tough moment for us guys, to be ballbusted and down at the feet of the girl who just got us.  It's going from powerful to helpless in 0.7 seconds.  It's a shock to our manhood, and it feels embarrassing.

And some guys need that attitude adjustment and absolutely deserve it!  And others appreciate the erotic qualities of this in any case.   :)

Then after the physical recovery there's what happens later over the day, or week, or longer.  I mean in terms of how the two people relate, how they speak to each other.  Is there a change in the power dynamic (yes!), how does his ego handle being taken down like that (it is challenging for us guys!), is there teasing or taunting (more power dynamic, could be anywhere from mean to funny and sexy).

When a girl kicks a guy hard in the balls it's an expression of real female power.  It's also a big ego adjustment for us guys.  The physical pain we feel in our balls is overpowering to both body and spirit.  We recover from the physical agony in a relatively short time, but the bruise to our egos can take longer. 

And that's not a bad thing at all.  :)

[Lil Suzy]

Thanks for that explanation, I bet my ex from many years ago felt all of that confusion (not the funny or sexy part). I bet hubby feels all this too.

[tsm89]

Great explanation. I don't know if I've ever felt embarrassment but my sense of belonging is never greater than the hours or days after the lady beats my balls. It definitely is an ego check and emasculation...also the feeling of being put in my place.

[Lil Suzy]

Well, as long as you felt you were put in your place and emasculated, I'd say the bb you experienced was quite successful.