Lil Suzie's ballbusting interview

[Lil Suzy]

I'm a lot more confident i my fetish and I'm willing to answer anything you ask.

[Johnny BB Goode]

...and MUCH SEXIER boots!
:)

[Harald]

Oh I hope that women will soon rule the world!

The weak health of many men is in large extent due to bad behaviour. Drug abuse, excessive drinking, aggressive driving, not caring about their health, too much laziness, all this add to lower life expectancy and many diseases. With a firm grip at the testicles women could certainly persuade men to change their behaviour and become more healthy.

But what do you think is the reason for that not enough girls are using groin kicks to make it a game changer?

[Lil Suzy]

Girls in general are too nice, they don't like causing devastating pain. The girls on this site are special I guess. I also read women have stronger Immune systems over men, so we're naturally superior in that aspect of health too, we have stronger constitutions. 

I remember reading an article on the Internet with the title " Girl's Immune Systems Rule, Boys Drool." that basically says it all.

 

[Tender Boy]

I agree, though if I may put a slightly different spin on it and draw a distinction between pain and injury:

I think most girls and women don't want to injure other people, and I think that's true even of the women here on this site (and this is a good thing, not a complaint!).  But causing pain - especially if it's consensual - is a lower threshold.

Many women are also as Suzy described, and don't want to cause pain either.

And yet there are a significant number of women who are in the middle.  They don't want to injure people, but if they can be reassured that a kick in the balls is just temporary pain and the guy will be OK later, then they might be willing to give it a try.  :)

[Lil Suzy]

Even with guys willing, women and be very squeamish on delivering pain like that. Women still see that area on a guy as extremely fragile. Basically they need to be educated on that reality.

[Tender Boy]

I agree.  These women are correct that balls are sensitive to pain, very much so.  What they don't quite understand is that balls are tougher than they think in terms of being able to take a kick and generally be OK later after the pain subsides.

Balls are sensitive but not especially fragile.  You can give them pain really easily, but causing lasting harm is far less likely. 

It can be hard to explain, especially to women, because there aren't many places on the body where you can be hit and the pain is so intense, even fall-down can't-breathe incapacitating, yet after some time to recover the guy is all right. 

Actually I did once see a woman writing about self-defense on the internet and she said that kicking an attacker in the balls is one of the most humane ways to defend yourself, because it's profoundly effective in the moment, putting the guy down in helpless pain, but it's a lot less likely to cause lasting harm than other methods of overpowering someone.  I found it interesting that she understood it so well.

Ironically I think this is something that makes ballbusting feel even more humbling for us men.  Women can bring us to our knees with our testicles in a world of pain, and they can do this to us without truly hurting us.  Somehow that makes it even more powerful.

[Harald]

The woman is definitely right. Attacking the other soft targets is much more likely to cause permanent or even deadly injuries.

But is it really true that most girls don't like causing devastating pain? Or if so, then why? Or most girls only refraining from it because they are not used to it? Or because they think they might be regarded us unwomanly because the gender stereotypes are still active? Or do they fear retaliation?

I ask this question because I have some experiences with hookers, whom I asked to kick and beat me up with a riding crop. At the beginning they were very cautious and insecure and started quite lightly, but when they saw how effective their kicks and whiplashes were and how much pain they could cause they became more confident. It was clearly visible and audible that they started to enjoy it and they went on harder and harder.

So my theory is that the girls in this forum are not soooo special, but that many girls and women enjoy having power over a man and inflicting pain on them. They just don't dare to start with it due to various reasons. But once they have realized that they DO have power, that they CAN inflict pain on much bigger men and that they have EXPERIENCED the feeling of power they start to enjoy it.

Would be very interested in what the women here think about my theory.

[Lil Suzy]

I agree with what you said, but i think that only applies to some women in the world. I think a mass majority of women would never find appeal in ballbusting, i do think it really does takes a special personality to enjoy it because of the violence behind it. We see past all the violence and writhing pain and see the eroticism and sexiness.

[Tender Boy]

I agree with what Suzy said and I also think that the women Harald is describing increased the intensity of the busting not only because they felt powerful but also because they started light, and saw that Harald could take it, that he was OK, not injured. 

And that's the right approach.  Start easy, make sure it's OK, and increase the intensity steadily.  That way you don't accidentally go too hard too fast.  Some guys can go all the way up to full strength, but some can't or don't want to.

[Lil Suzy]

just on how sensitive they are, that's very true. Because they're that sensitive, most women will always see that as extremely fragile.

[Harald]

it seems that most women should get some further education on male anatomy :)

[Johnny BB Goode]

Hi Suzy, I don't mean to change the topic here but I wonder; have you thought about posting a gallery of you in your sexy boots here on this site? I'm not talking about anything drastic or overdone here, just perhaps some of those photos of you that you have used for your profile pictures maybe..? Some of those pictures can really let one's mind wander, if you know what I mean. ;) Just a thought....