Sydney Interview

[Sydney Marie]

Hello everyone out there on Kicked in the Groin, i think I'm ready for your questions, I'm jumping in the fire.

[Tina]

And I third that.

 

[1fdjfv2uhi0jm]

Yes! And I will fourth that!  This is definately one of the interview threads I follow closely and look forward to new questions and answers.  Susan, you have a pretty hot one going too, actually! :)

[Sydney Marie]

Thank you Greeneyedsusan, Greg M, Tina and Anthony, I appreciate the high praise on my interview.

[Ray]

it's time to revive your sexy interview. Do you prefer kicking guys who are older, or younger than you? 

[Sydney Marie]

No, that's what's so wonderful about ballbusting, it's not about the person I'm busting, but his balls, his reaction to the hit and my arousal level. I think all of these can be accomplished no matter what the age of the guy I'm busting.

[Ray]

Does it make a difference to you if you’re ball busting a guy who is into this or do you prefer kicking a guy who's not interested in this at all? 

[Sydney Marie]

Both situations probably bring up different feelings. A consensual session would be more like a mutual agreement for fun, maybe foreplay and a level of intimacy with my partner. Most of my busting have been with guys unwilling i would think. These were guys that didn't tell me they were into bb, maybe they were, but i didn't know. I don't know why, but taking is so much more sexy to me then consensual agreement, but bottom line, busting is best with guys that deserve it.

[Tender Boy]

I have only done consensual busting but it's really interesting that you prefer the nonconsensual kind.  I am intrigued by it too.  I wish there was some way for me to experience it but that would make it consensual, LOL.  (Or else I'd have to be a jerk to someone to provoke her and I don't want to do that).  So the nonconsensual kind may just have to remain a fantasy for me unless I can figure out a way to role play in some way that approximates it.

But how you phrased it fascinates me -- you said, "taking is so much more sexy to me".  It feels like that to me too.

Do I have it right that you feel a good bust in the balls is "taking" the man's strength, his power, his masculinity and you just own him in that moment, or something like that?

[Sydney Marie]

I find the nonconsensual busts to be pure girl power. Many times when it is consensual it seems the man has too much control on what goes down and this totally takes away from the bust in my eyes. Non consensual doesn't always mean it's going to be hard, it just means a surprise. I don't have to take  his power away unless he deserves it, a playful non consensual bust can be very flirty and sexy if the girl knows how to play her girly cards right. A mental mind fuck is just as erotic.

[annie]

Mental mind fuck, i love it.

[Sydney Marie]

Thank you Annie, I think it's got to mess with a lot of guys minds to threaten them or to go through the motions of a fake hit.

[Tender Boy]

You are right.  It does mess with our heads when you threaten our balls or fake a knee or kick at us.  I know it makes me feel really vulnerable, like you could do it at any time and I don't know when, but if/when you do it, I'm suddenly going to be in a lot of pain in my balls and there's nothing I can do about it.

I understand what you mean about the nonconsensual busts being pure girl power.  That's the feeling I get from it too.  From a guy's perspective this is simultaneously really cool and exciting but honestly it's also a little intimidating, though in a good way.

And the woman does have more control that way, when it's a surprise.  I like that it's your decision whether to take the man's power away.  Does that go through your mind when you're about to bust a guy?  I mean, are you thinking about how hard you want to get him, and deciding whether you just want it to be a "tap" to be playful with him, versus wanting to see him down on his knees in pain from it with his power taken away?  Have you ever done it that hard?  Thanks for answering.