What would you do?

[Trev Howser]

An old school friend of mine is popping back to the uk next Fri.

Now, She owes me a sum of money and knows about my fetish. She would struggle to repay me cash and has offered to pay in kicks. I told her that amount has got to be worth 2 sessions but as She is only over for 5 days recovery could be an issue. Shes gorgeous, mean but a complete novice.

So I am just after suggestions. What would you do to get the most out of this? How would you play it?

What games or rules would you play?

And finally what aftercare would you recommend for my balls to get them ready to go again asap?

[Smack My Nuts]

I think I would just agree to do half the debt for the first session and then decide on whether or not you want to do the same thing again for the second half instead of committing to two up front.

[Allen Witts]

I'd be very, very, very cautious.  Getting busted in any situation in which there's a debt or an obligation feels very shady to me.  You should really make sure that it's something that she's not uncomfortable with if you do end up going to this path.

[giordy]

My suggestion is to just get the money. You can then get bb elsewhere with girls that enjoy it or pros if its your thing.

[Richard]

I am in a similar situation...but the person dont know i like this stuff...all i have to say is do what you feel  comfortable with....if she is a person that you dont care about really then go for it and have a ball and also if she feels comfortable doing this to you. if she is a person you really care about or seeing her again in the future and dont want to ruin your guy relationship then it is not worth asking her to do something you into...you can either let the money go! and it time Good karma will come back to you in time or ask her to pay you back in smqll amounts or make her ur gf

[Trev Howser]

So the over-riding advice is: BAD IDEA? 

Looks like I'm taking 200 cash and then working out the remaining debt another way then. Could always visit her in Spain.

See how it goes a week on Sat.

Does no one think BB for debt is a good idea? :)

[Smack My Nuts]

I don't think it's necessarily a bad idea.  I just worry that committing to two sessions right off the bat doesn't leave you with any recourse if things don't go well for the first one and doesn't leave her with any incentive to make sure you get what you want.  I think that agreeing to one for a fixed amount of debt forgiveness and then leaving the second one open makes more sense.

[Trev Howser]

Yep. That does make sense. If i get one that fantasy gets lived out. Then maybe let her take me out for a few drinks and call it quits. 

[Smack My Nuts]

I was more thinking that if it goes well, you say "Hey, that was great, let's do it again for the rest of the debt" and if it goes poorly, then you don't.

[Trev Howser]

Speaking sense there. Yeah. Im really up in the air about this. Gonna have to wing it. 

[Jax]

I understand it’s not the preferred method, ideally I’d meet my dream girl and she’d be into ballbusting... until that day I don’t have any problems with transactional ballbusting and in fact I’ve had several models, pornstars and pros tell me they had way more fun doing it than they ever thought.  The only thing with transactions is not pushing someone outside their comfort zone, then it can be a bit sketch.  It sounds like your friend is up for it though, so the only thing to hammer down is how to quantify it, when working with several models the rates are set by timeframe and expectations.  I definitely agree with Smack tho, you don’t want to preplan multiple arrangements at once, if the first one is awkward or sucks you don’t want to be boxed into doing a second one.  It’s probably gonna sound incredibly sexist but I can’t deny from my personal experience that the most attractive women who have borrowed money from me are typically the least concerned with paying back a debt, just from my little bit of experience there and the way you’ve described things it sounds like getting your cash back is not a realistic outcome so if she’s down for it then why not do a ballbusting session with her.  So yeah I definitely think it’s a good idea as long as she’s cool with it and you guys agree to the rules of what that session entails. Oh and you were asking about a quick rebound... ice bath or at least a cold shower, minimize swelling and bruising so you can bounce back a little faster.  Good luck dude.

[Trev Howser]

Thanks. I think this confirms my views.

And I am deffo taking the points into account.

So my new plan is to have the first one as a tutorial.

Try different methods. Play around and have fun. 

Then recover for a couple of days and go for a proper bruising.

And yes, money is not really forthcoming. 

Kinda know what you mean about pretty women and lending money. :( but heres hoping i get something worth remembering. 

[Allen Witts]

I don't think the overriding advice is "bad idea;" I think it's more that people are somewhat concerned about the morality of it.