A little question for the girls

[Andy Lee]

Hey everyone.

So I haven't done many topics on here, but I thought I would talk about something that hopefully gets the ball rolling (pun intended, lol).

I ask the girls mainly because I almost feel like I know what the guys are gonna say (but of course, guys, I'm happy to hear your input).

For the girls who like to tease, and I guess have a bit of a kink (coz ballbusting isn't kinky enough, lol) what do you girls think about when you give guys blue balls? In some cases, blue balls can be so severe, that the testicles literally ache. On top of that, I think it adds to the power factor, of "controlling men" and almost giving them a bust without even touching them!

So what do you girls think? Do you think giving a guy severe blue balls is in some way, a kind of busting? And if you do, how do you feel about it?

Thanks, and I look forward to hearing what you all think. :)

[Erica Noelle Wang]

Yep! I think, I will get more results from him without having to kick him any harder and risk permanent damage or anything.

[Foo Bar]

Blue balled hard, then busted - very nice, little girl.  Now that's some pain and humiliation!  I've experienced this one with several gfs, it's a real head trip.  Do you like to hear your boyfriend beg?

Using this technique you may discover just how easy it is for a cute girl to break her boyfriend's will, without much risk of injury.  He'll be kneeling at your feet, kissing your ass, and saying "Yes, Miss" - if that's what you're into.  Just be careful he doesn't fall in love with you.  ;-)

[2swollen]

I used to get blue balls from make out sessions with no release when I was 14 -16, but not really as an adult.  Worst case of blue balls was from making out with two girls all day but didn't come.  We skipped school and went to Terri's house and the makeout session was on.  Her dad came home around 4 and threw my ass out.  Boner, blue balls, and all. Had blue balls so bad I could barely ride my bike. My sister drove by and saw I was hurting and stopped.  My blue balls had me hunched over in pain, she had to put the bike in the trunk. There was no way I could do it. She laughed her ass off when I told her what was wrong. Told me I needed to go jerk off.

[Andy Lee]

Ahh damn, yeah, that would definitely give you blue balls man. Shame to hear the dad came home and ruined it all, lol. And haha, while your sister was blunt, she was right. :P As much as you wanted some girly action that day, unfortunately the next best thing you could do was to just jerk off and relieve some pressure, lol.

[Lakesha]

I think its probably hella uncomfortable for y'all if we teasin and y'all aint getting that release. That said, for a female, yea there is definitely a control factor. I mean we can do it to you but y'all cant do it back to us. Would I do it: maybe it depends on what he done.

[Contance]

I'm sure Blue Balls are quite psychological, I'm sure it's not a myth, but the result of a strong desire and then what you want is taken away from you (sex). Do guys actually feel it in the balls? some guys have told me they absolutely do. This is actually a really good question for you guys to answer. Is it a mental kick in the balls?

[Thomas]

Blue balls are not psychological...lol

[Andy Lee]

Hey Constance. Oh yeah it is no myth, and in fact, some women have also reported to have gotten tender loins if they get turned on but don't finish. I guess you could say it's psychological in the way that you want to get off, and have trouble concentrating. And if your girlfriend was teasing you, I guess you could become more submissive in a playful setting, maybe. Though blue balls are very physical too, ranging from feeling agitated/discomfort, to actual pain in the balls, lol. Not like a kick, but like you want release. Not getting any later/not being able to finish could be a metaphorical kick in the balls, sure, haha. And because they feel more sensitive, an actual kick would hurt more I'd imagine.

Now I'm curious on a woman's end, both what they think of guys with blue balls, but also those who get "blue walls" haha. Some have said they felt it in the labia, while others said they felt it in their ovaries. Humans are fascinating, haha. :)

[Zapan99]

I believed blue balls were a myth, until a couple years ago, when I shared a vacation with my family in Corsica. Basically, I could not masturbate for 3 weeks, because of a shared bedroom, and seeing hot topless girls all day on the beach only made it worse.

The only cure, besides cleaning the pipes, is to take cold showers, in order to flush out the pent-up sperm. But you get to a point where not only your balls hurt just like when someone is squeezing them (from being jam-packed) but your prostate also starts to ache, which means that all your groin area hurts.

Even bending over, or jogging around, becomes painful. I cannot imagine being kicked in the nuts at that stage, any man would faint at the first tap, it's like being halfway through a ballbusting session at any time.

Not only you get really cranky, but you're also paranoid about the size and tenderness of your danglers. It feels like they are bright red and doubled in size, but really, they look rather normal, you just become a wuss about it.

The worst thing ironically is the release. If that ever happens to you, make sure to take painkiller before finally masturbating. It took me two hours to reach an orgasm, just because each time you tug, everything hurts! Also, don't hope to sleep afterwards, since it feels like your balls were turned inside out, and you'll need to fap multiple times, before getting back to normal.

[Gretel Wayward]

Well I'm pretty curious about that last part. Do you think there's a point you'd reach where you'd have trouble being able to get off, if you didn't have any painkillers?

[Zapan99]

The trouble is that mechanically, any kind of stimulation (i.e. porn) will activate sperm production. So even if you're delicate enough (lubed masturbation) you only have about 5 minutes to reach an orgasm, before you start to feel an acute pain in your epididymis (the sperm sacks attached to the testicles) as they fill up with fresh sperm.

Also, the closer you get to orgasm, the more tense your cremaster muscle becomes (the ball lifting muscle), which also causes pain, when the testicle is tugged up into the inguinal canal.

So you can be stuck in that painful yo-yo action for a while, if you don't find "efficient enough" porn to reach climax. I found that what works best for me, at this stage, is POV amateur blowjob videos, since you can really get off fast, once you start to identify with the lucky guy that doesn't have to fuck his own hand.

Needless to say, when you finally reach your climax, you litterally cum gallons, and wince with each spurt.