Tina's Interview

[Tina]

I lost my interview while trying to save it, can it be retrieved?

[Kendra]

Hello Tina, sorry about what happened to your interview : (

What was going through your mind when you saw your sisters bf writhing in the back seat of his car?

[Tina]

Kendra said:

Hello Tina, sorry about what happened to your interview : (

What was going through your mind when you saw your sisters bf writhing in the back seat of his car?

Answer - I had a lot of things running through my mind, I wondered what i actually did to him, did i damage him. Was i going to get in serious trouble for doing it that hard because my sisters bf was writhing and whining like he was in a lot of pain. I'm not going to lie, i was very happy he was hurting that badly. I never liked my sisters bf for a number of reasons, but once he violated my space like that, i gave him my best shot.

[greeneyedsusan]

I have two questions for you. (1) How the hell did you loose you original interview? (2) Do you think your athletic prowess in soccer/football translates into more devastating kicks?

[Jessika K]

I know you said your bf opened your eyes towards ballbusting, how did he help you develop your fetish for bb?

[Sandra]

I remember from your lost interview that someone asked you about your first bb experience, what was it again?

[Tina]

greeneyedsusan said:

I have two questions for you. (1) How the hell did you loose you original interview? (2) Do you think your athletic prowess in soccer/football translates into more devastating kicks?

Answer (1) - All i did was save it after updating. it seemed to take a long time to save and once it stopped, my interview was history. I suggest if you're going to use the old format of editing to back up your interview to a word document every time it changes.

Answer (2) - I know my skills in soccer have translated into a more powerful and swifter kick. Not only soccer but all the sports i participate in strengthens my legs.

[Tina]

Jessika K said:

I know you said your bf opened your eyes towards ballbusting, how did he help you develop your fetish for bb?

Answer - I have to let it be known that I busted around 5 guys before i realized it was a fetish for me, two were accidents, another two were anger busts (My sisters Bf and the neighborhood bully) and one was while fooling and playing around in the hallway at school.

Now the link with my bf. My bf got very aroused from a hard knee i gave him while we were slap fighting in his back yard. I really let him have it with the knee i gave him too, he was swollen and sore for a couple of day after. I was totally shocked that he was so aroused by that hit. He was very persistent in getting me to see the erotic side of ballbusting and in about three months he won me over.

[Tender Boy]

That's really interesting how you got started with your bf, because you say you really let him have it with your knee - and that's before you knew he liked BB.  Can you tell us more about the circumstances?  Since you didn't know he was into BB, were you really trying to put him on the ground in pain?  I don't mean that in a bad way at all, I am just wondering.  How did he handle the pain from your knee when it happened?  (You mentioned he was sore later).  And what went through your mind at the time, since you didn't know he liked it, and you weren't yet thinking of BB the same way you do now?  Thanks!

[Tina]

The events that led up to the knee was a slap fight, he was totally in control and wouldn't stop so I kneed him pretty hard. He didn't take the pain well at all, he was on the ground a while and writhing wildly. It took him a few day to feel 100% again, he also suffered slight swelling from the knee. about a week later he confessed his feelings about what happened and that he was very aroused and was practically walking around in a constant erection because he was sore. His soreness triggered his arousal. 

[Tender Boy]

Thanks Tina, that's a cool way to be introduced to BB, I think, for both of you.

I'm curious - when you kneed him hard and he went down, considering this was before you and he were "into" BB, was it still a playful feeling for you (and him) or were you mad, or maybe concerned he was really hurt, or was it not too much of a big deal?

When you kneed him, did you expect that he would fall to the ground and be in that much pain?  Or did it surprise you?  Could he have got back up if he tried or was he really down for the count, nothing he could do about it?

I ask because all my past GFs have seemed to like playfully kneeing or swatting at my balls but would never do it hard (and I was too chicken to ask) because they were afraid of hurting me, I think.  The thing is, they didn't need to be so afraid (I just didn't know how to tell them that).  I wish they had been as brave as you and just gone for it, you know?  What gave you the confidence to do that, to just go ahead and knee your boyfriend hard and put him on the ground and not be worried about it?

[Tender Boy]

I had another thought.  It's interesting that you say he "didn't take the pain well at all" and was on the ground a while (how long?).  Did he really seem to be suffering badly?

I ask because then it turned out that he was very aroused by the whole experience and told you about it the next week.  As I talk to people on this site and watch some videos, it seems like some men (not all, but some) who enjoy BB are looking to receive a certain amount of pain from a bust, and it puts them "in the zone".

And by that I mean that they're experiencing "enough" pain to get past a certain threshold where it gives them the feelings they're looking for - the endorphins, the arousal, the woman's power (which is very sexy), the humiliation, whatever it is that charges things up for him.  And once he's there in that zone, he often wants to stay there for a while.  It's a good, happy place.  Well, OK, also painful but you know what I mean!  :)

I think there is a difference between a guy who likes BB and a guy who has no idea what BB is when they both have the same experience of being kneed hard and falling to the ground.

The guy who doesn't know BB falls down because (1) his balls hurt (obviously, LOL) and (2) maybe he's just trying to protect himself, or whatever.  Pretty straightforward.  But the guy who loves BB may be a little different.  He might fall down from the pain but also because he wants that pain, he wants to experience it and inhabit that place for a while.  Falling to his knees and rolling around and being overpowered by the girl and all that good stuff... it hurts, but in a way he might not really be fighting against it too much, you know?  Because he wants to feel it, not fight it.

So what am I blabbering about.  Well, I was just struck by how you described your BF how he "didn't take the pain well at all" and yet this led to him being strongly aroused by you and what you did to him and later he wanted more.  So I wonder what was going through his mind (and body) when you first kneed him and he seemed not to be taking it well, yet later it was a good feeling for him.  There is seemingly quite a contrast there.

Do you think he was really, truly suffering from extreme pain, or was he "in the zone", that happy place where yes it is very painful but in a way that the guy wanted it to be, so he kind of lets go and goes down and lets it take over without resisting it too much.  Or maybe some mixture of these?  I wonder if you could tell at all by watching him, or maybe if he said anything about it later.

Thanks Tina.  Your comments are really interesting and illuminating.

[Tina]

How long/suffering? - He seemed to be in some pain at the time, i kneed him hard, i wouldn't expect him to take it well, i actually do remember how long he was on the ground for, but it seemed quite a while. Basically, bottom line, i fucked him up.

All i can say about my current bf at the time of that bust is, he's always had this fetish and maybe his fetish was actually fueled by his experience. He was able the go above his pain and enjoy his moment in his fetish. When he came back and told me how much he enjoyed the experience, i can say now, that's exactly what happened.

I'm totally sure he felt that shot, he didn't seem all that happy about his predicament. What really shocked me is when he told me about his feelings and how turned he was about my hard knee to his groin. Bottom line, he was definitely suffering and feeling pain at that moment of the hit.