Romantic Busting? YES!

[Marina Glückskeks]

I was told I should post this. People asked multiple times what I like about ballbusting. I have answered that I like the "thankful drop". dvhour said tonight that he noticed men and women regard the topic differently. Might be. So here is my point of view. Lets start with the thankful drop :)
The person wishes to be busted, its consentual, and when he has enough and goes down, he's glad.
Yes, there is pain in his face but deep inside theres an individual saying "Thank you, that you did this for me."
People that want to be ballbusted are just different, not kinky or crazy or insane to me, I regard bb to be just another form of sex, what is it that you want from Sex? Person A wants to fuck. His goal is joy. Well but person B is different, he needs it another way, he needs some pain. Whats his goal? joy.

So how can ballbusting be not romantic? Since the goal is joy, in both fucking and busting, these tihngs are proven to be the same. They are methods and ways to achieve the same thing. Also, who says sex is always romantic? You can have rough fucking or romantic. You can have beastly busting or romantic. Especially kneeing because its a bit like a ride on the knee. I was agreed by 2 people that it can be romantic and they are no bust-virgins like me.
Also, these differences in the things are so romantic, so dramaturgic. To say, almost full of emphaty "you cant for it, youre different, i'll give you what you need..." is pure drama, i love it.
I posted this because I felt like why should bb be an extreme. It's just an alternative way to joy. Hence it is something sensual. And nothing freakish. We should not let us put us into that corner. And we also should not want to be dragged into the extreme corner. I don't feel extreme or freaky and I can't say I felt like talking to freaks when talking with the people on this board, just normal human beings. I'm as sensual as the average wallflower sex type of person, I am healthy in my feelings and deeply respect the feelings of the person I'd bust, I was asked questions like if i'd like to hurt him or be sadistic. No. Im sensitive. So are your balls. And i like to be sensitive, and not a stone. That is why ballbusting is - or can be - romantic to me.

[Zwyx]

I really do find certain aspects of busting particularly romantic. Such as when the male's on his back, and the female is on top of him, kneeing him, or kneeing him up against a wall while kissing. It's just the intimacy of having them so close while beating the hell out of you that mixes so perfectly together. I also agree with it being as an alternative to intercourse, which I have no personal desire for.

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

WOW love your take on BB its very practical and one of the best introspective thoughts on BB that I've seen. Thanks for posting this. Even though English is not your first language its remarkably clear I appreciate this pst very much. :)