My Experience With Rough Body Play (True Story)

This is a true story

I’m approaching the two year mark when I first met her. Not to lessen my numerous wonderful and meaningful experiences with amazing women over the years in the kink scene, I’m not!!! I merely want to highlight this one particular moment as a valued and cherished memory. Why is it special? Well...

I was working in Chicago, It was my first time spending extended time there, I didn’t really know anyone and it was super hard to make new friends and get my footing in such a big city… so I did what any sane and rational person would do. I sought out friends in the kink community.

On my third day in Chicago I went the Rough Crowd meet up. It was in some obscure run down location in what appeared to be a questionable neighborhood. Oddly enough I had no fear or worry. I rang the buzzer and went up 3 steep flights of rickety old stairs, the door creeks open and this exceptionally beautiful woman says hello with lovely smile. I’m awe struck by her beauty. Who is this woman??? She was absolutely salacious to my eyes!!! I am not my normal charming self, I'm stumbling and awkward. I want to gaze at her and flirt but I’m too shy and too intimidated. She has me fill out this form and gets me to pay the event fee and then asks me to be seated with the group.

The workshop began, it was on Rough Body Play, which primarily involves Punching, Slapping, Kicking, body to body impact play, with no toys. I was intrigued. Prior to this workshop, many of the kink events and workshops I had been to were bondage and toy centric so this was refreshing and more in line with my genuine interests. The male running the group (and this particular workshop) is a self identified Top and Sadist. His exhibition partner, identifies as a bottom and she is a masochist. The radiant beauty, that met me at the door, well she was his gf. "DRATS!!! It fucking figures, haha." He tells her to unclothe down to her panties. She obeys. She is standing there in all her glory comfortable and confident. The comfortable and confident part was most sexy.

He demonstrated strikes to her body and gave a talk about the proper way to impact the body and how to monitor your partner. Where its safe to punch and kick and where its not wise to punch or kick.

The guy is about 6’ 3” tall weighs about 220 lbs, a solid, imposing and good looking fellow. She is about 5’ 2” weighs about 120 or less and though she’s not athletic she has a firm petite build and mega beautiful face. They are a sexy looking couple and have a delicious chemistry. Rough Body Play is primal, it’s animalistic and it connects you with your partner in a very real physical, and tactile way. They demonstrated well because this is the chemistry they had. It was also appealing because they helped to set the tone and energy in the room.

For those of you who don't know, I am both a Bottom (receiver and/or one who consents to being controlled) and a Top (giver and/or one who takes ownership and control of that consent). I AM NOT SUBMISSIVE!!! But I will allow my body and mind to endure pain and challenges if the chemistry is right. I am slightly sadistic I have a solid and athletic build, so I do enjoy showing off my body, strength and power, but my masochist and sensualist desires are much more pronounced. I’m not particularly into using my strength to beat up on women or watching other guys do it (not judging haha) but yeah its more my thing to showcase my endurance and will to handle any physical body to body contact pain a woman can dish out. This is not me being cocky, its just the reality of my craving and interest.

ANYWAY… it came for time for the kinksters in the group to choose partners and beat on one another. Most people had partners except for me and a few others. I was pretty shy and I didn’t want to do anything my first day with such a group. At that moment the focus was punching. I noticed that the radiant beauty wasn’t satisfied practicing on her female partner and said something about wanting a big strong guy who she can punch on…. Up until that point I had been too shy to do anything with anyone in the group cause all the gals who I wanted to play with had partners and it was pretty much just guys and I didn’t want that kind of chemistry or contact, so when she said this I took off my shirt and looked in her direction…

At that time I was in great shape and solid so she took one look at me and said “I want him” (I believe I’m paraphrasing but its pretty close to what happened). This totally was unexpected and thrilling and naturally an ego booster. So this sexy radiant beauty who I was both mega attracted to, intimidated by and shy around was now standing in front of me - in her panties no bra and no other clothing. I’m now face to face with her I look into her eyes. She tells me where she will be punching me and not to worry she will start off slow.

She starts punching my shoulder regular at first then picks up the pace and power as she see’s its not phasing me. She punches harder, it surprises her I don’t budge. I tell her she can hit much harder. Her eyes widened, she says “REALLY” with a big grin. At that point I was like wow thats hot! That look in her eyes was both seductive and sadistic. She punches harder and still amazed I’m not phased by it. Remember she’s typically a masochist up until this point and now she had this real craving to hurt me it seemed. She gives me a hard solid punch that still does not phase me and she looks me in the eyes and bites her lip… she says... “Wow that doesn’t hurt” … I say “nope its pretty cute actually”… she’s determined to hurt me… she asks me to face her so she can punch my stomach and chest. I oblige… She punches my chest… same effect she looks stunned and excited by this and continues to deliver a barrage of punches to my chest and stomach. She was surprised nothing fazed me and she was determined and excited. In that moment she decided to punch me with both fists as hard as she could in my chest. This time I felt a little something but nothing that made me concede an inkling of a defeat. For the most part I still thought it was cute. Only now I was getting in the zone. Nothing was said it was all in the intensity of our eyes. It was sexy as fuck, and this kind of kink play was beautiful to me.

After every punch she looks into my eyes and gives me this piercing craved look of desire… even though there was attraction it wasn't necessarily sexual so much but her appreciation that I can handle her beating and the fulfillment of giving her a challenge… Maybe it was her realization that for the first time in her kink realm she was unleashing the sadist in her. This was something she had never explored before. At this point I started thinking about her hunger and craving and I was getting aroused not by the pain but the eye contact and how I was no longer intimidated by this woman but was now connecting to her in a very intimate way… we were both in a zone and in that moment it was only us in the room (with her bf not too far away, no disrespect)… it was real chemistry, it was yummy… It was the first time I had ever experienced a zone like this in a group setting… in that moment only the two of us mattered and she went from wanting to practice a technique on some BODY to really really really wanting to hurt me… The super hot thing in my mind was that she had absolutely no idea that my main kink was ballbusting and I knew in that moment if I could get her mind on to wanting to try ballbusting then she was gonna be overflowing with craving and desire to kick the shit out of them. The fact that I had this in the back of my mind and her not knowing made the session that morel intense. She was doing her damnedest to abuse me but was not even coming close to touching my pain threshold. It was with her craving, her determination and deep piercing eyes that I began to grasp a much better understanding about kink chemistry, my masochist body-scape cravings and genuine kinky mind-fuckery.

The punching ended I didn't want my contact with this woman to end so the next topic was kicking. Before the lesson began they said is there any technique or something anyone would like us to do... I said... "What about kicking below the belt"... I then told him it was a kink I was really into.. The instructor said that was an area we could explore ... I said ... MUHAHA ... in my mind. So the instructor practiced kicking his gf and another gal in the privates... The way we were shown to kick was from behind while the person was on their knees. I personally hate this technique but it was better than nothing. The interesting thing is like 3 gals now wanted to kick my balls but I purely wanted my gal to do it. Lets just say this sparked a huge interest in her and her eyes and craving were even more intrigued by this proposition.

To be continued.

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