MEN!!! Stop being a mouse about Ballbusting and take control.

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

I am Dvhour, I am an alpha male who loves to get his balls kicked, kneed and stepped on. I refuse to allow a woman to grab my balls or punch them. I know what my balls can handle and I do my damndest to push it but I also know when to quit and call it a day. I am no body's slave boy, I am far from submissive but I will submit, worship or pamper the right woman if she complies to my desires and interests. I no longer allow just any gal to kick my balls. I am particular about my play mates and so should you. I say all this because its time to speak up and empower some men here. We lack education and a sense of pride in our kink.

Ballbusting guys hide waaaaay too much and its a damaging epidemic for our kink. Matter of fact Ballbusting men are some of the most isolated people in the S&M realm and it doesn't help that many circles view ballbusting as a hardcore fetish and a bit of taboo. Even female sadists who are ok with drawing blood or causing wounds on other parts of the body… these same women are often too timid to try BB out. Go figure… I do get it though  we live in a society that tells women NOT TO KICK TESTICLES. Men and women need to be aware of the risks and dangers and embrace it or don't do it. Its that simple. Hiding behind a computer is not a solution though. If you want to experience it my advice is for people to be proactive and stop acting like its something to be ashamed of. 

It bugs me that a vast grouping of guys act like mice about their balls and feel its a submissive or slave boy kink when in reality the vast majority of us, men are masochists who just love the pain and or humiliation of it. We need to start saying proudly and openly, I love ballbusting damn it!!! Too many guys have been taking up the attitude that our balls are pathetic and worthless and that we should be ashamed of them. FUCK THAT!!! There is certainly a place for that kind of thinking and there is nothing wrong with being a submissive or slave boy, but Ballbusting is not about that and it shouldn't be pigeonholed that way. I feel its my job as BB contributor to empower the men of the BB community. Remember Guys its brave as fuck to say to a woman or man "I like to be kicked in the balls, will you share this with me"… Guys there is no shame in it go out and introduce your partner or some guy or gal to our fetish but do it in a way thats fun and easy for them to digest. 

Ballbusting doesn't have to be brutal... Guys stop worrying that you are doing ballbusting wrong and stop letting these hooded and masked men in the dungeon be your role models.  Be realistic and simple at first… When asking a partner to try ballbusting with you try getting them to firmly press their knee or thigh in your crotch when you both are rolling around in bed kissing… Next time she is sitting in a chair and you are on your knees before her, have her cross her legs and kick or nudge your balls and cock gently as you admire or caress her legs and feet and look into her eyes… Or even better next time you give a woman a foot massage take her other foot and place it in your crotch, every once in a while gyrate your hips and push into her foot. Show her how sexy and sensual that feeling is too you... umm she will get the hint when she feels you growing under her foot.... This is simple stuff that no one really talks about, the sensual and sexy parts of ballbusting. We truly do need to share tips and ideas that can help elevate the IQ and sexy nature of BB. 

People like Dweezy, Damien, Knave, Joe&KAT, AW, Wutchaknoboutdat, Bronson, Lilly Longlegs and Fox and Wolf have elevated the sensibility and beauty of BB by putting content out there showing the whimsical nature and fun of BB. Some of it is brutal but the reality is its all presented in a way showcasing a human side of it. Showing that regular men and women out there can do it and have fun with it. You don't have to be in a dungeon nude hiding behind a mask. In the past three years I have been using Fetlife to meet people in my city/town who I have converted into happy ball kickers. It is pretty much RARE as hell to actually meet women who are into ballbusting I have met a small handful over the years, but I have met both dominant and submissive women who are now into it, because of how I introduced them to it. Because I put myself out there I am able to experience real BB and I would advise and encourage everyone on this site to do the same. If you guys or gals have any questions please feel free to ask or make suggestions. 

[Maskedguy 1.7]

Sound like Vegeta of the Dragoballs Z series

[Jah]

This is inspired

[Ange88]

It's funny that people feel like they have to be labelled in a certain way because of what they enjoy. A LOT of people think because you might enjoy pain, that you have to be submissive. It's when you take the labels out of the equation and just dive in and have fun can you really appreciate the fetish and fully submerge into it without guilt, worry or stigma. 

I do agree that women tend not to be into ball busting unless they were introduced to it. I have done CBT and other forms of pain on men but, the thought of ballbusting scared me. My fear was that if I ballbust, I will physically cause unrepairable damage to the testes. It wasn't til I really got a good lesson on what balls can handle, did I really let go of my fear and just dove in. I think even John is still surprised of how fast I enjoyed ballbusting. Pretty much night and day reaction lol. 

Any of my friends who have desires or kinks... I always tell them to at least try to mention it to their partners earlier rather than later. You NEVER know what people are willing to try and how open they are to trying it. Some people just never got exposed and never got a chance to think of it.  

Just be safe! 

[slaverayne]

very well put and eager to be shown the ways :D

[sexxiigirrl]

PREACH!!!

[Danny Johnson]

I understand where your coming from. But when your an 18 year old lad in a group of mates, there is no way to tell anone, fair enough you lot are older and have wives ect. think im just gonna hve to wait till im older, what was you lot like whe you was 18@? cause its literally all i think about BB

[Weak dude]

Great...... I agree also!

[Destin]

Great post! I totally agree.

[Fox & Wolf]

Well said.  That's exactly what we try to encourage with our "silly cartoons." It should be more casual, and is really a great thing when it's shared in a romantic way. (That's the only way we do it.) Thanks for the words of wisdom DV. Hopefully we can help you on this journey! Fox is working hard to get a website going. We hope to do custom cartoons, but we also -hope- to have lots of other BB stuff. Fox is great at sculpting & she hopes to make cool accessories (like little balls for shoelace ornaments, etc.) We have ideas for a board game, in which you can use a fake sack (and the balls inside light up if you kick it hard enough.) As well as "Instigation cards" (a play on business cards, that invites people to kick or be kicked.) Ahhh, I could go on and on... we have SO many things planned. We hope to contribute to the BB community and help this REVOLUTION in the new year. Should be great!!!! 

[G Reezik]

Were you in my head? I've had those thoughts for quite some time but not as well spoken and I tend to ramble. I think there needs to be a ballbusting revolution!!!! Thank you for making me know that I'm not alone.