Did I Screw Up?

[KneeMyNuts]

So, I'm in New York City and all these people are going out to clubs (not me, I'm 36 and too old lol). All the women are wearing extremely sexy high heels and I LOVE being busted in high heels. I didn't even proposition anyone to kick me.

Did I fuck up? Should I have? What's the best way to ask a total stranger?

[KneeMyNuts]

Thank you, everyone! I really felt like I'd blown a great opportunity but, in fairness, I was hammered lol. I'm glad I didn't do anything to drunkenly embarrass myself.

I LOVE this community! You guys are awesome, honest and helpful!

[Jim Johns]

You did not screw up at all.  Propositioning a random girl to bust you would have been screwing up royally.  Remember that getting kicked in the balls is a sexual thing for you, and you can't just go around asking hot girls to give you sexual favors.  You wouldn't just walk up to a random hot girl and say "hey, can you please suck my dick?" would you?

That question was supposed to be rhetorical, but to remove any doubt, the answer should be a resounding "NO."

[2swollen]

I'm with Destin, couple o drinks, a lil convo, once you have some rapport, ask some fun questions.  Somewhere in there, ask them if they've ever kicked a guy in the nuts.  If no, have they ever wanted to?

[Destin]

Have a few drinks, have a chat, talk about the subject.. see if they are into it.. take it slow..

Don't just ask a random person lol

[mike smith]

Use fetlife.  Meet kinky people.  

[Joe]

No it could get you in trouble to do that.  Go to a Domina or a dominant girlfriend.  Where you can have privacy and a consensual agreed upon encounter where both people want to participate and benefit in some way.

[Eric]

Honestly probably not the best idea to proposition strangers out of the blue about ballbusting, especially in a scenario like you described lol.

Did you fuck up? Definitely not, ya did the right thing by not assuming your fetish on unsuspecting strangers.