In a recent post, I discussed a “near miss”, a kick in the nuts that never happened, but could have, no should have happened.  The near misses stand out to me almost as much as the busts that occur.  The reason for this is because they allow my mind to take control of what could have happened.  I will share another “near miss” in this blog post.

I went to high school with a girl named Kelly who was two grades older than me.  Kelly had a way of letting the boys know that she…

I have been lucky enough to have been married at two different times to women willing to kick me in the nuts.  I am still married to my second ballbusting love of my life, but that doesn’t stop me from thinking about past busts.  Some of the memories that creep into my mind the most are the near misses, the busts that never were, and the ones that could have been.  I will share one now, and if popular, I will share more.  These are real situations and not day-dream fantasies.  



When…