Over a year and a half ago, my gf who loved ballbusting broke up with me after 3 years together. It's been a slow time since, not having much luck in the bb world. A few months ago I met a girl who's significantly older than me (I'm 23, she's 31) out at a bar. Turned out we live in apartment buildings across from each other and have been hanging out sporadically (mostly going out to bars) ever since. She's stayed over at my place a few times, and while we've gotten sorta "hands on", haven't…