Bruised testicles and relationship dynamics

[Foo Bar]

Ladies, have you ever bruised your boyfriend's balls while busting him?  Was the bruising intentional, or just happened as you got carried away?  How did he feel afterwards - and how did you feel about it?

Recently I was discussing bruised nuts with my lady friend Moon.  She has properly bruised my boys several times in the past. Not just beat them bright red - she does that all the time.  Bruised like still swollen and sore the next day.  She said she "wasn't sure" if it had been intentional.  Not sure what to make of that. But she also made it clear that she reserves the right to bruise them intentionally if she wants to.

The last time she did that to me - a year go - it was intensely humbling.  Of course there was the ballbusting itself - she took all her work frustrations out on me, and she was a little angry at me too.  I'm sure any man who's had an angry busting from his girlfriend/wife knows, there's a wild emotional component in addition to the pain from the beating. 

But the real humbling aspect came in the days after.  Back home a thousand miles away, walking around with sore nuts for a week.  A constant reminder of Moon's power over me and what she can do to me at a whim.  When I told her they were still sore a few days later, she laughed and said "Good."

The background of this conversation is, when I visited her a few months ago, she felt I was disobedient.  She tells me she is planning to punish me badly on my next visit.  Hasn't decided, she says, whether she'll bruise my testicles this time.  It's pretty intimidating, honestly.  

[D Rawk]

I have had my bf tell me that he was sore a day later. I assume his testicles were bruised but I have never experienced being able to visually tell they are bruised or swollen. I really do like the idea of making testicles swollen though,lol. I would be turned on knowing that he is still limping around a week later.

[Foo Bar]

Next time you're going to be out of town for a few days, tell your bf you want to give him a busting that will keep him sore while you're away.  Express to him how important it is to you that he remain humble while you're away, and persuade him to ask you please to bruise him.  It should be your right as his gf.  But use it sparingly - the effect on your man will be intense, to say the least.

[Tara J]

Wow, complicated. Follow your heart, and your balls. It all depends on how much abuse your balls can take.