Lately I'm thinking about updating my Tinder profile.  I want it to be more suggestive of the kind of woman I would like to meet.  But I don't want to write "dominant woman".  For one thing, it's just too blunt, not cute or playful.  Too direct.  Women, I find, much prefer indirect and playful.

So I'm wondering what people on KITG think of as a "cute" way to say "dominant woman"?  Ideally something that's a double-entendre or otherwise plausibly deniable, in case a colleague should read it, but still will catch the eye of all the lovely ball-breaking girls out there. 

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Strong woman with independence 

Am seeking a woman who knows what she wants, is very hands on and quite firm. That ought to do it Foo!

"A woman who knows how to take charge" or something along those lines might work.

I would actually consider something more specific than others have suggested because the phrase "she's a ball-buster" is usually not taken literally. It normally just means a woman with a strong dominating personality. I would say something like "I like a woman who stands up for herself, takes charge when she needs to, and isn't afraid to bust my balls when I'm out of line."  If someone you know sees it and asks about it (which they probably won't), you can just say you meant it metaphorically, that you like strong women who aren't afraid to challenge you.  Probably a lot of women will take it the same way, but women who are dominant will probably suspect what you mean. 

Did you find any good way, Foo?
I tried various ways myself but nothing really seems to work. I tried writing something about getting hurt. But the girls on the dating apps thought I was talking about heartbreaking and not physically pain. 

Then I tried this text
"I’m looking for a women who is sweet but not too sweet (winky smiley)” 
The girls didn’t seem to get what I meant. 
Now I been more direct and wrote “Looking for a women who is (devil smiley)”. No likes so far unfortunately. 

It also seems to me like there are many more women who are submissive than who are dominant.
I’m using the Feeld app at the moment. It’s smart because you can choose your desires such BDSM, Submissive, Dominant and so on. The only thing is that with Submissive and Dominant one never knows what the girls mean. 
I matched with a girl whos profile said Desires: Dominant. And with that it turned out she meant that the man should be Dominant. Then I match with another girls who profile said Desires: Submissive. It turned out that it was because she was submissive.

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