Can a girl take away a guys ballbusting urge?

[Jared]

I have to admit that I thought it was sexy at the time she said it to me but I've thought about it a while now and wondered if this had every happened to another guy or if any girl had ever had similar thoughts.

 

I was chatting with a girl on a non ballbusting site and as they always do the topic turned to her experience kicking a guy in the crotch.  After a pretty lengthy discussion, where she revealed her total understanding of fetishes and her understanding of my attraction to ballbusting she typed a line that made me swallow really hard.  She typed:

 

I've got the power to take your fantasy away from you!

 

I realized that she'd tapped into my fascination with all things associated with being controlled by a female and actually I thought she was just being a tease but further questioning revealed that she really believed that she could kick me hard enough in the balls that it would take away my desire to ever be busted again.

 

Females:  Have you ever threatened to take away a guys fantasy?

Guys:  Has anything similar ever happened to you?

[Smoo]

Never had it happen, but I can understand it.  Get a guy who's only casually into bb and get a girl who is much more hardcore into it.  She could easily go past his preferences and take it to the point he no longer enjoys it anymore.  Could she take it to the point he doesn't like it at all?  It would have to be quite extreme but I'm sure it's possible.

[Zwyx]

It is possible, and our very own Nancy had posted a story on it, too. http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/profiles/blogs/ballbust-true-story...

While I cannot say such has ever been the case for me, I actually did find that I got tired of one particular girl kicking me again and again, over a long period of time. This girl being my most recent ex, in fact. It may be something to do with my personality, but I just find myself...getting bored of something, the more often it's done. I still had the fetish, don't get me wrong, but it got old because of the frequency and consistency that I received it.

To get back onto the topic, yes, I imagine it would be fairly possible for a girl to bust a guy so hard that he lost interest (if not his balls.) There are some strong people out there; both physically and mentally. Never underestimate anyone.

[Jared]

I talked to Nancy earlier and mentioned that I'd posted the discussion and she should comment.  I'm pretty sure this girl was just trying to show just how much in control she was...not only did she know how to fulfill the fantasy...she knew how to END it if she wanted as well.  Talk about ultimate control.

Travis said:

It is possible, and our very own Nancy had posted a story on it, too. http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/profiles/blogs/ballbust-true-story...

While I cannot say such has ever been the case for me, I actually did find that I got tired of one particular girl kicking me again and again, over a long period of time. This girl being my most recent ex, in fact. It may be something to do with my personality, but I just find myself...getting bored of something, the more often it's done. I still had the fetish, don't get me wrong, but it got old because of the frequency and consistency that I received it.

To get back onto the topic, yes, I imagine it would be fairly possible for a girl to bust a guy so hard that he lost interest (if not his balls.) There are some strong people out there; both physically and mentally. Never underestimate anyone.

[Transient]

My girlfriend has jokingly made similar comments once or twice (she never followed through with it of course). I could easily see someone either shy way from or completely abandon the whole thing if they were busted much harder than they can normally tolerate. I could see it being even more likely if someone where to traumatized if they were busted really hard (maybe even repeatably) in a situation outside of the norm for that sort of thing, or by someone they didn't expect it from.

[Nasty Nicole]

I've never made the threat of taking this fetish away from a guy, i basically assume he doesn't have one.

[Nancy the Band Nerd]

I've never made that threat to anyone, but I've been told by one individual after i had a session with him, that he's no longer interested in getting busted. That was a few years ago, he may have returned to the fetish and maybe he's one of the members here.

 

http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/profiles/blogs/ballbust-true-story...

[Jared]

When you watch videos of guys getting continuous knees or kicks..all guys start to think they've got that kind of tolerance for pain.

If a guy is more about the fantasy than the reality and is honest with himself; he'll admit that after the balls get tenderized the pain of even the light hits is amplified to a point where he's got to start stammering safe words in a please-have-mercy tone of voice.

I'm sure that was no secret to you, Nancy, and you knew exactly what was going to happen with that follow up knee.  You subtly admit it in the narrative:

Nancy the Band Nerd said:

"I walked up and lifted my knee and smashed his already sore balls hard."

 

It sounds to me like you were just trying to give him the full experience he was requesting...even though you knew he didn't know what he was asking for at that moment.

It's strange that he cut off correspondence though unless he was just embarrassed by the fact that he couldn't endure what he thought he wanted so he ran away to avoid being exposed to that failure.  Sort of like the boy in school who avoided you in the halls forever after you kicked him in the nuts on the playground.

 

Nancy the Band Nerd said:

I've never made that threat to anyone, but I've been told by one individual after i had a session with him, that he's no longer interested in getting busted. That was a few years ago, he may have returned to the fetish and maybe he's one of the members here.

 

http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/profiles/blogs/ballbust-true-story...