Dear KITG,

The day has finally come... after six long years, I'm leaving the site.

Donation time has always been excruciatingly frustrating, but this

year has been exceptionally bad: I can never get answers from 

Dvhour because he is never around. I've been carrying the site for

four years now, doing 95% of the work and all I ask of Dvhour is for

him to handle the whole donation headache, but every year, I can

never reach him to get answers on how we're doing. We were supposed

to talk this weekend to figure out what to do with the site from here,

but as usual, he was not around and it is IMPOSSIBLE to get an answer

out of him. I have reached the end of my patience.

Even worse, only 56 people donated this year, with only 5 days left

before the deadline. 56 out of 8000 members!! Every year, we get

at least 100 loyal members to keep this site going, and even that is

pathetic, considering we have 8000 members. But, this...this is an

all-time low. I can't tell you how disheartening this feels to me. With

all the time and energy I put into this place, it is beyond insulting.

If only 56 people think this site, and my work, is not even worth a few

dollars, why the fuck are we here?? This tells me that it is time to go.

Whether or not you make the deadline, I am done here. I want to thank

all who donated the past five years and kept us online. I want to thank

all who shared their wonderful videos and pictures and stories because

we couldn't exist without your contributions. I want to thank the core

of the community, the dedicated who made this site a family...it was

you that I stayed for to make this site a HOME. And as utterly frustrated 

as I am right now with him, I want to thank Dvhour for trusting me to

run the site...I had some wonderful experiences because of it, and there

may be a couple more in the works ;) But most of all, I want to thank all

of you who shared your experiences and stories and lives...your hearts

and souls, with me...I stayed this long because of you.

(see: https://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/forum/topics/looks-like-goodbye)

(see: https://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/forum/topics/ask-mallory)

I will leave this open for a week, until I leave. Please feel free to leave

any hellos or goodbyes, any final thoughts, good or bad...or say hi on

chat. I don't want this to be a somber last week...I want to celebrate 

it, so I will be answering any last questions and sharing my thoughts on

blogs, discussions, stories, etc. Let's make it a happy final week :)

~ Mallory ~

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apparently, you haven't been reading SS :)

You crack me up with those faces, Susie :D The meeean tiger was my fave!

I would like to give my love and thanks to you, Mallory. The energy, effort, fun, love and passion you gave to this community made it truly special. I will miss you.

Those words mean a lot Jason...I did give it all of those things and I'm

glad it did not go unnoticed. And it is a super-special community! Very

proud of what Dvhour and I built here... and yeah, I will miss it too :)

FWIW:  Me too.

For the record, I wish I could have spent more time getting to know Mallory but between all my so very too many interests I get so little time for any of them including my love for being kicked in the groin.  :)  But I know everyone who's posted is an awesome person were I to meet in real life I would hug as if we were all old and dear friends.  Everyone here is amazing and awesome and most especially you Mallory!  Thank you all for being you!

...you too, Charlie Brown - you were like my pesky lil brother :D

Akuma :) I'm sooo glad I met you tooo 

Mal Mal,

 What can i say, you did such a wonderful job here behind the scenes, I really love how you controlled the site by the short hairs (hello Dvhour :*), you're going to missed in sooooo many ways. One day i hope to see you return to the site as a regular member so that you can join the ranks of the chatmonsters.

That kiss to Dvhour...hahaha :D I always loved the way you teased him that way...

him, not so much - 'specially when we'd gang up on him :P We were such mean kitties,

RAWRRR! It's always funn to have them by the balls ;) You were always one of our

superstars...and always looked out for the girls. Thanks for being my fellow mean kitty,

my eyes and ears, and one of KITG's greatest friends and supporters :* I shall miss you,

my dear Susie-Q... and yes, my little chatmonsters too :)

Mallory you will be missed... Thank you for everything. I wish you the best. Come back and visit if this site survives. 

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KITG 2024 DONATION

As of November 28, 2024 these folks have donated.

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  3. PayPal initials DH
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