Cyber-Busting?

[Aaron Ingrahm]

This is a question for the female members of the site.
I'm quite new here, and indeed quite new to the experience of discussing BB with others. That said, I've recently been introduced to the concept of cyberbusting.
Whenever I do something, I usually like to do my research on the topic so that I can really do it right. So, towards that end: what are your general feelings about cyberbusting? What are your preferences? What should I expect? What are the preferred methods employed? And last, but most importantly, how can I make the experience as entertaining and enjoyable as possible for you?
Thank you for your time. :)

[Sarah]

My general feeling are negative. When I first came out of the closet with my fetish, i took part in several cyber sessions. Initially, i enjoyed it, but it became over kill for me very quickly when i was constantly asked to participate. It has become very not enjoyable for me now. Just being honest.

[Aaron Ingrahm]

Your insight is invaluable, thank you very much. :)

Sarah said:

My general feeling are negative. When I first came out of the closet with my fetish, i took part in several cyber sessions. Initially, i enjoyed it, but it became over kill for me very quickly when i was constantly asked to participate. It has become very not enjoyable for me now. Just being honest.

[Aaron Ingrahm]

Again, thank you immensely. Any information is good information to have. :)

L said:

Lol me too, honestly i never liked it

[Marina Glückskeks]

Personally i can't say that cyberbusting is anything enjoyable for me.
Basically, Sex is something that takes place in the head. Thus cybersex can be alright.
But despite that busting is sex, too, mainly I draw my satisfaction not out of the other persons body but out of my foot.
The feeling of the impact, well and the consciousness about what i did.
That is in the head, but still - you see... Casual sex pumps some hormones up in our brain. cybersex isnt emulating this because there IS a reaction, the hormones are activated and go into the brain because of the arousal.
But if it comes to busting, well, my foot and even my sadism hunger.
But no hormones involved I guess.
hence, cyberbusting is as tempting to me as to imagine i sit in my car instead to really sit in there and drive it.
Some things just cant be emulated. It just doesnt do it for me.
This explaintation might be clumsy, as is the comparision, but I try to answer your question about how you can make it enjoyable for me. The answer is - it just doesnt work, hence, theres no way. I think the only "kick" that I really get from cyberbusting is the typical thrill of enjoying to do something kinky with soembody i have not played intimate chat-games with, before. But once I have done that, like.. a few seconds... I cant get anything out of cyberbusting.
Just my opinion.

[Tina]

I'm not a big fan of cyberbusting either, i guess i've been asked too many times also. I can totally relate to what Sarah wrote.


To me it's just a big waste of time.

[Adam Mcpenis]

i would say it depends on the person really.

[Heather Harrison]

Hi Adam. I love a good cyberbusting scenario. I guess that's cause I'm travelling all the time and can't find a good buddy to bust me.

[Alice B.]

I just say no and stay clear of it.

[Tanya]

Cyber anything for me depends on the participants ability to communicate - its a 2-way experience - it is both expressing my feelings and learning the other person or persons feelings and reactions. I enjoy cyber-fetish exchange with an expressive person that is willing and able to express their feelings and reactions to me.

As for cyber-busting, I have not done that yet, what is your concept of "cyber-busting"?

One of the biggest joys of busting a guy is his reaction - which is mostly physical - that sudden vocal sound of a grunt or groan, that sudden intake of breath, that sudden physical reaction of doubling over, that sudden facial expression of surprise, pain, fear, whatever. Another joy of busting is the feel of nuts in my hand, having a man by the balls, etc. Another joy of busting is the feeling of power, physical power, to impact a man disabling way. I just wonder how or what feelings of satisfaction I could receive from cyber-busting?

Can you explain your concept of cyber-busting? How does it work? Exactly what benefits does it offer to the one doing the busting?

[Lorren]

Same, it's much like cybersex was; fun and sexy for a while, then a little same-old. Cyber anything is very 2-way dependant, and I found most of the time I was the one doing most of the talking and imagining in response to 'then what would you do?" over and over.
Nowdays commiting to a good session (being at least 30mins or so) isn't worth the effort for the reward. Don't forget, I'm getting off on this too and if it's all one-way then there's no reward in it for me

[Dylan]

I've actually had a few pretty stimulating cyberbusting experiences. However, they involved actual self busting along with what my cyber partner was writing and describing and vice versa. Using a webcam definitely enhances as I would tell her to bust herself and then see it and likewise.

[shank]

i hav not had a cybersex session yet...but its more 2 way dependent as lorren says...

Lorren said:

Same, it's much like cybersex was; fun and sexy for a while, then a little same-old. Cyber anything is very 2-way dependant, and I found most of the time I was the one doing most of the talking and imagining in response to 'then what would you do?" over and over.
Nowdays commiting to a good session (being at least 30mins or so) isn't worth the effort for the reward. Don't forget, I'm getting off on this too and if it's all one-way then there's no reward in it for me