Guys: Is it the pain or the humiliation?

[Ballbuster_X]

I know this is a basic question, but this discussion always has room to take place again :P.

But, guys: Are you into ballbusting because you like the pain of being hit in the balls --

or are you into it because you like the humiliation of beng "beaten up by a girl"

...Or something else?

Please share.

[19xe89g6iv7ac]

The pain and the humiliation are not mutually exclusive of course, but for me I think the humiliation is the real turn on. There are other ways to be humiliated by a girl, both with and without pain, and the humiliation itself is both -well, humiliating, and strangely enjoyable.

 

I like watching kids and even high school guys that wind up wrestling against a girl, and get beat by the girl! For a high schooler especially, it's humiliating to get man-handled by a girl, turned onto your back in a cradle and there you are struggling like crazy to avoid being pinned. She just keeps applying pressure knowing that your strong male muscles will slowly fatigue to the point where you just feel your muscles getting weaker as she controls you and finally the dude cannot continue on and is pinned for the loss. While she wants the pin as quickly as possible, the girl also enjoys each second that goess by while she controls and the crowd in the gym is hooting and hollering at this poor guy getting his ass kicked by a girl. Humiliating.

 

For me it really a turn on for a guy to first be humiliated by other means, and then having done so the girl follows up with busting the guy's nuts. Bringing a guy's balls into the whole thing is then the ultimate, the pinnacle. Our balls, along with our penis, is what we are mostly about - at least it seems so in our minds. For a girl to destroy us with a shot to the balls, to incapacitate us with the sickening pain in our man parts, is simply humiliating, controlling, and sorta nice :)

[Dylan]

Simple answer is that it's for the end result. There's something definitely physical happening to a pair of swollen balls that makes ejaculation 10 times more intense than normal. Once your body knows this after the 1st time, it's impossible not to crave the pain. And for me, the more pain the bigger the orgasm.

[shorty]

Hmmm.  For me, I'm turned on by why it turns most women who are into it on:  The feeling of power and control that they get.  Whether it's revenge for them or some sort of sexual release/satisfaction, it's hot to know that they're getting it at the expense of the part of the boy's body that would otherwise receive great pleasure in a woman's company.  That irony is perfect, and it wouldn't happen without the pain, so that has to be part of it too.  I've been kicked a million times, and every guy here knows that if the kick is in the right spot, it doesn't have to be a very hard dick to drop you.  I *love* seeing the woman feel powerful at my expense --- right before she kicks me and she knows what she's about to do, and after she kicks me, when I'm down for the count.  Yum.  I love ballbusting women. 

[Level 4]

To me, it is humiliation.  One of my ex-girlfriends always used to tease me by either faking a kick or grinding a knee into my balls.  She always seemed to own me after that.  Just a glance at my crotch was all she needed.  One time she had me pinned down on my bed and had her knee on my balls.  She asked if we had a fight, who would win and then she would exert a little more pressure each time until finally, her pressure was too much to bear and I admit defeat.  Her laugh after that still haunts me

 

[not given]

Im not sure if its either one.  A little pain can be enjoyable, but I can say for sure Im not into getting busted to hard.  If i was to get hit on accident playing a sport or working or something like that i dont think it would do anything for me.  I guess its something psychological, humiliation is probably part of it, but not all of it.  BB for me would have to be done with a girl im attracted to as a form of flirting or as foreplay.  There is just something so hot about a cute girl playfully wackin you in the nuts and giggling.  I think it would almost always have to be done playfully for me to enjoy it.  I could take a few hard ones if she was into it but for the most part playful gets the job done.  Im sure a girl like you could take the pain way past the enjoyable limit.  If it was all about the humiliation i would be into public busts and it wouldnt matter as much who was doing it.  If i was to be busted in front of others i would prefer it to be other girls, especially if they are also attractive.  And it helps if they laugh along with the buster or encourage her.  If they do that, or throw some verbal bb in or tease me when getting busted or even help by holding my hands back it can be about the humiliation.  I feel like i have more to say about this but im still trying to figure it out myself.  Feel free to ask me follow up questions.  I hope this helps.

[not given]

So I guess im gonna add to what i was saying.  Again its something psychological maybe classified as humiliation but im still not sure if thats what id call it.  Anyway I love being teased sexually.  Its kinda like bb in that the girl is using my cock and balls to control me.  The best combo is when a girl goes back and forth between teasing and busting or does both at the same time.  A good game of this nature would be if a girl got me naked, tied me to a chair, gave me a lap dance for about 20 minutes (stripping as she was doing it obviously) got me hard as a rock then said, ok ill let u touch me if you can take 10 knees to the nuts.  Thats gotta be totally empowering for the girl and still very fun for the guy.  Having a guy pussy whipped and busting his balls has to be like the ultimate form of female domination.  Making me beg for each kiss or each touch and making me earn it with bb is fun for me.

[Iron Johnny]

I don't think its really either (at least for me), its really about the aggression, specifically directed at an area which is obviously sexual .  The idea that she can and is interested in reaching  down and taking control over me is overwhelming.  I think that it is far more psychological than physiological as a result. 

I once overheard a conversation between this cute brunette and the guy she was with at a pretty empty bar, they were arguing over something, in slightly heated tones.  She ended it saying:

"Trust me, you'll do what I say when I have your balls in my hand"

It was all I could do to not fall out of my chair.

[ddrbst27]

For me its just about all the pain. I dunno what it is but for something that hurts I only want more and during intimate times it adds so much to the bed. Im a bit of a masochist so kinda goes hand in hand lol. Having said that Im a pretty built guy doing rugby at my school and weightlifting lifting, but I must say when the gf (shes a petite 5'1") gets a hold of the boys and squeezes em tryin to take over its pretty sexy

[Trevor Swevel]

I fully agree with Pinballs and Tender Boy. I hate the pain but if the girl is playful and condescending in a light manner, it's arousing and really really hot

[J.P.]

Humiliation - no doubt.  I love knowing that it is so easy for her to own me and that it is so damn amusing to her.

[Max Wilson]

humiliation...... cfnm ballbusting for me