Is what i'm doing considered cheating?

[charles stone]

I'm curious to hear what everyone thinks about this question. Am I cheating on my wife by letting other girls bust my balls on a regular basis?

[charles stone]

I actually have thought about seeing a shrink. But that would probably cost me just as much if not more than seeing my domme. My domme is more fun!

[Shadowhawk]

I think that would depend on you and your wife's feelings about it. In my relationship, it is cheating.

[Jim Dickens]

If you have to ask, it is probably cheating!

[Leonadus]

Maybe you should look at what you ready have and be thankful for it. So what if your wife doesn't practically rupture your balls? At least she hits you there. Maybe what you want isn't what you need. Yes, your wife should please you, but at the same time you should be considerate of her. Imagine if she found out through someone else? It'll be hard but I really do suggest that you stop seeing your domme. She doesn't care about you. All she wants to do is hurt you. If I had a wife that busted me for sexual pleasure, I'd be extremely grateful. Count your blessings, brudda.

[32z471adyzhnn]

I understand your point of view, but it's still cheating. My last girlfriend did't want to hit me hard either (she was the first I told abut my fetish) at one occation a frend of her threatend to kick me (jokingly) and my girlfriend said "No, I'm the only one thats allowed to do that!" Her friend looked like a question mark, but to me it was clear that my girlfriend didn't protect me from being kicked. She knew that I considered it sexual and hince so did she and therefore it was between us only. Maybe you could try to get your wife to hit you harder by telling her about some hot memory from before you met her, it dosen't have to be real white lies newer hurt, and if she would let you relive that it would be really sexy for you. Maybe no sex that day but "un investment in the future" (choose other words). In the end, if you love her, be happy with what you got. Relationchips are about more than the sexual acts.

 

And that idea about seeing someone might be a good one, although I would be to embarrased to do that. When someone says "it's almost like an addiction" it usually is. Desires and lust are good and healthy, addictions are not.