Sydney Interview

[Sydney Marie]

Hello everyone out there on Kicked in the Groin, i think I'm ready for your questions, I'm jumping in the fire.

[Sydney Marie]

In my situations, they (angry and playful) have been equal, can't say about other busters. What happens next in an angry situation is a lot of pain and writhing, guys have been down a good 5 or so minutes to unknown amounts of time because I just didn't stick around to watch him finally recover.

I'm going to have to finish the rest of you questions when i return, don't worry, I'm not going to leave you hanging on the other questions.

[Sydney Marie]

You have to understand, busting situations are not cookie cutter events. They happen with as many situation as is possible whether it social or not. Most of the times i've stuck around until he recovered, the guy seemed humbled by the bust. He might have been angry, but i never saw it in him, maybe he realized his asinine actions finally caught up with him.

I guess what I'm asking is that I can imagine busting a stranger really hard if he deserves is, and then walking away or whatever.  But if this was someone you know pretty well, and you kick or knee his balls so hard that he's down on the ground totally disabled from the pain for a while, what happens after that? - This only happened once with all those criteria you pointed out in your questing, it's with black widow bust number one posted on my profile.

http://kickedinthegroin.ning.com/profile/MSydney

[Tender Boy]

Thanks Sydney.  I love what you've written about your experiences.  They're informative and fun to read.

I've posted elsewhere that my "problem" is I'm too nice so my female friends don't seem to feel any need to bust my balls to remind me how to behave, LOL.  But if that ever did happen I would probably be like the guy you described - in pain for a while, very humbled.  Probably embarrassed too, even a little humiliated to be sent to my knees so helpless like that.  But ultimately just apologetic and not mad.

[Sydney Marie]

Or better yet, you can some day find a friend that like to play this way and she'll bust you just to be funny and playful.

[Tender Boy]

I do hope I can find her someday.  :)   Thanks for all the replies Sydney you've helped me understand a lot.

[Sydney Marie]

No problems, glad i can help out.

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it is very nice you are so open about it all :)

[Sydney Marie]

You are very welcome, i actually enjoy how i explore my feelings, thoughts and memories as the members ask their questions.

[Jenny G]

Hey Sydney,

Great interview! I want to ask about your "black widow" busts. Have they always followed a sexual encounter and do they always come in the form of your most devastating knee? I wonder if any of your victim knew that they had just been black widowed? :) This seems a real trademark of yours so I'd love to know more about it.

Jenny x

[Sydney Marie]

Hello Jenny,

Only one followed a sexual encounter (the one in my interview/kick) , the other was actually a bust before sex (the one on my profile/knee) which sort of takes away from the black widow definition, i just like classifying it as one. 

The one i kicked sort of exposed his bb fetish to me while we were chatting and opening up with a few drinks, but I doubt he expected me to kick him that hard or even at all. The one that got kneed after sex, he had no clue I was this dangerous. During the night of foreplay and sexy, i kneed, slapped, squeezed him very lightly in the balls. His big mistake was getting out of bed the next morning as I was getting dressed to leave, if he stayed in bed I would have left him alone. He got up to say goodbye to me and thats when i kneed him.

Black Widow.

[1fdjfv2uhi0jm]

I have a question regarding the man you kneed after you had sex with him.  Did he have any idea you had a BB fetish? Did he have any idea why you kneed him.... like was he left with the impression that you kneed him because of something he had done that may have angered you?  Or did you leave him baffled as to why he just got his nut sack smashed? And have you seen him since? or was he literally a stranger that you will never see again?

[Sydney Marie]

I didn't tell him about ballbusting, but i was playing a little rough with his balls throughout the night. I saw no indication that he suspected I was a ballbuster and liked doing it. He doesn't know why, i didn't tell him about my dangerous kink, he's clueless as far as i know. I'll bet he's very confused on why i did it because as i walked out the door, i told him he was a wonderful lover. He was literally a stranger that i will never see again.