Lil Suzie's ballbusting interview

[Lil Suzy]

I'm a lot more confident i my fetish and I'm willing to answer anything you ask.

[Lil Suzy]

They tell me later, that it's scary that i could go so much harder and that i'm being nice. At the moment i'm telling them this, the only emotions i'm noticing are painful ones.

[Tender Boy]

This is hot. 

And you're awesome for teasing them playfully about how you're going easy on them.  It is playful and fun and yet still total girl power.  :)

Are you ever tempted to kick harder?  Maybe just one hard bust at the end of a session that would be a "finisher"?

[Lil Suzy]

I do slip once in a while, i know Ive come close to hitting that 6/10 level, i can tell when i slip up, but i really try not to. I seriously do not want to loose my bb buddies because they fear meeting me in private.

[Tender Boy]

@ Lil Suzy,

Oh I totally understand.  Since you are introducing these guys to BB you have to go at their pace and not pressure them.  It sounds like you're very good at that, being patient and giving your partners the level of experience that they are able to handle and enjoy without overwhelming them.

I was curious because you had earlier mentioned that giving out really hard busts (to guys who deserved serious testicle pain) was your most exciting BB activity (10 out of 10 arousal).  So I wondered if you would enjoy kicking your partners hard like that if you felt they could handle it.  I realize they probably can't so you don't want to push it and that makes total sense. 

I was just curious how you might enjoy dishing out really hard busts if you knew your partner was OK with it and wouldn't be scared away.

[Harald]

Oh yeah it adds a lot of humiliation for the guy. Lying whimpering on the floor after being kicked by a member of the "weaker" sex is already humiliating enough. But getting to know that she did it at only 1/2 strength and being teased with it makes the humilation of the male perfect.

[Lil Suzy]

The funny thing about all this, we start out with our sessions knowing I'm just going to go about 1/2 strength. Its just fun bringing up the fact that it's only 1/2 way.

[Lil Suzy]

@ liquid metal,

Mt bb buddies get hard, but that doesn't mean sex is going to happen, they can pleasure themselves on their own time or with their gfs. 

No worries Liquid, no criticism was taken. We're all just having our fun.

[Tender Boy]

In terms of sexuality, I think ballbusting is more intense than flirting, but much less than sex.  And just like flirting, you often do it with someone you like but aren't necessarily attracted enough to that you'd want to jump into bed with them.

I think everyone here on this site feels a sexual response to BB, either giving or receiving it.  But what we choose to do about those feelings varies widely with the person and the situation.

Lil Suzy, I also wanted to mention that if your bb buddies get hard, then they probably aren't in too much pain.  If you're just going half-strength then that makes sense.  Is that the kind of response you are looking for, moderate pain and a little fun arousal to go with it?

[Lil Suzy]

Thats true, we all have our levels of arousal. I know i definitely do and i also agree that BB is way above the garden variety flirting. JUst look at the descriptions the members here describe it...erotic...sexy...powerful...arousing. So, yes, BB is very intense.

They are harder when we start, but after 30 minutes of medium hits, they do loose their rock hard erection and become softer. Yes, I want to cause some pain which i seem to do and I also enjoy it and get aroused.

[Tender Boy]

That's cool, and it's very similar for me.  Light playful hits are flirty and sexy and often make me hard. 

I remember the first time I was kicked in the balls with some force (she said it was only about 40%) the pain was shocking since I wasn't used to it.  I handled it fine but my whole body felt lit up with excitement and a little nervousness.  And I looked down and saw that I was hard, already.  So yes.... you wonderful women do have that effect on us!

Stronger kicks (including full strength) are more painful and these will make my erection go soft but it doesn't mean I don't like it.  :)

I actually love the experience of full-force.  I love watching my partner totally free to bust me however hard she wants.  Women's bodies are so beautiful in motion like that.  And I love the satisfied smile on her face when she gets me good.  The pain is intense and I get an amazing adrenaline rush which is why I won't be hard when going full strength, but there is still a very strong emotional and psychological pleasure and turn-on happening.  Her enjoyment becomes my enjoyment too.

The visible effect of that pleasure on my body is just delayed until the adrenaline and pain in my balls eases which takes a few minutes.  And then I get excited and hard again.  :)

[Lil Suzy]

Even if one of my partners ask for a full force hit, i wouldn't do it and I'm sure he'd regret it after. Even if risks are minimal, i'm not going to go all out on them. They haven't asked yet anyway :)

[Tender Boy]

How do you bust them?  Is it kicks or knees or other ways?  Do you wear shoes or boots?  From what else you've said I assume the guys keep their clothes on but is that right?