"Ballbusting" compared to "cuntbusting" as a term

[Tali S]

So there I was, chatting to this guy, and then he asks me "Have you been cuntbusted before"?

Now, I know that's the usual term, but applying it to myself didn't feel that great. Many women don't mind the word - after all it's just a word, and sometimes used in a playful and positive way - but most times this word is not used as a compliment. As compared to "ballbusting", which is really neutral, what are your feelings about the female version?

[Sarah]

Personally, the first time I heard the word "cuntbusting" I winced a little. I really loathe the word "cunt." It sounds like a word a redneck would use to describe a woman he can't stand. Whatever its denotation may be, the connotation is, in my mind, wholly negative.

 

So yes, I like to be kicked between the legs, but cuntbusting? Really?

 

Balls is a much more neutral term. I have a theory about this - men refer to their (How's that for a pretty word?) much more often than women refer to their own. We're overexposed to most of the words that mean "Penis" or "testicles." Vagina-words are used much less often, and mostly by men who don't necessarily mean it in the nicest way. So they still feel naughty, dirty, or crude. Especially crude.

 

Incidentally, I'm very new to this, but in my head, I totally call it "Testicle-Torture." It rolls off the tongue nicely, doesn't use the word "balls," and yet is still quite accurate.

[Tali S]

Hi Sarah,

How do you refer to yourself being kicked, then? Can you call it "testicle torture" when you don't have testicles? :)

Sarah said:

So yes, I like to be kicked between the legs, but cuntbusting? Really?

 

Incidentally, I'm very new to this, but in my head, I totally call it "Testicle-Torture." It rolls off the tongue nicely, doesn't use the word "balls," and yet is still quite accurate.

[Sarah]

To be honest, I don't really assign it a term like that. I just say kicked in the groin. XD

[Marina Glückskeks]

basically you could reduce it even further to "lets begin!" to start the kicking, it wouldnt require explicit instructions, if your guy would not know what you mean then that would be pretty funny ;). And btw Sarah i never knew you were into CB!

[Lisa]

I love kicking balls better then kicking pussies. lol

[Marina Glückskeks]

It would be cool if a a cartoonist (KNAAAAAAAAAAAAAVE) would  draw a CB where the foot is stuck in the pussy like "Argh i told you barefeet with sunlotion is dangerous *narf*"

[Sarah]

o.o Do I know you from somewhere?

[Marina Glückskeks]

Sorry - my fault indeed :(

[Sarah]

...huh? Your fault for what?

Meenah said:

Sorry - my fault indeed :(

[MatthiasE]

I don't like the words Ballbusting and Cuntbusting.

Saddly,these are the terms in common use.

I prefer as a term kicking, punching the groin, it's just my opinion :-)

[TasBB]

i don't like either word. I wouldn't want to admit to someone that I was into "ballbusting" - though how exactly I would broach the topic I'm not sure.... :)

[dhim]

I've always hated the term "cuntbusting".  It's far more vulgar than the male counterpart.

 

The problem is we need more playful, neutral words for the lady lumps, like we have for boy bumps.

 

Maybe vag busting, or vajayjay busting (thanks Oprah), or cooch busting (we could keep the same CB initials).

 

But, in general, I think people need to get used to the fact that lady parts don't have to be as taboo as they are currently viewed in the world.  They're just...parts.  Boy parts are mentioned and joked about all the time.  Why should lady parts be left out of all the fun :)