Who calls the shots?

[Katie Hoffman]

When you have a ballbusting session with a partner, who calls the shots?

1) Is it mutual? As in they do a few and then see if they want to do more?

2) The guy tells the girl he can/cant take anymore, or he wants her to do it harder/softer?

3) The girl tells the guy she wants to do more (whether he wants to or not) and she wants to choose whatever hardness?

4) They agree on a goal (number of kicks, hardness, etc), or some generator,  and they continue until the end?

Obviously I prefer 3! Everything is up to me unless the safe word is given! But what do you guys do?

[Jim Dickens]

With my last GF, she was in complete control. She decided when I had had enough and there was never a safe word. She did take it too far sometimes, but I was willing to take as much as she wanted me to no matter the consequences.

[Smoo]

The sesisons I had done was more 1 and 2.  It was mutual in the sense of we'd both suggest different positions or methods for her busts and in the middle of the sessions she'd have more freedom to go harder or lighter as she wanted.  For the end, it was more based on me and when I was done.  She was very respectful about it and there were even two sessions that she figured (correctly) that I was done by the reaction of a particular bust.  Other times I knew I was about finished so I'd request something harder to really lay me out for the last shot.

[Trev Howser]

Think I'm normally a 2 and dream of a 3

[Weak dude]

Number 3 and also number. 4

[Shadowhawk]

Usually 4. I would like to try 3, but she's not usually comfortable with that level of control.

[TheGamerBB]

It has been always number 3 with all the women I've done ballbusting with.

She can do whatever she wants unless the safe word is given. It is always the woman who dictates what happens during ballbusting. She hit my balls any way she wants, she will feel how much I can take and will increase the intensity according to her will.