Sugar Daddy site advice

Ok, so a girlfriend and I are trying to both get more variety in our busting. So we want to try out SeekingArrangements. (For reference we were busting buddies but now live 3000 kilometres away.)

I told her just say what you want and you’ll get lots of opportunities. She is much less confident and wants some advice of what to say on her profile to get guys who are interested in just getting kicked with no sex.

I am in the opposite boat. I’ve tried before unsuccessfully to get this and other sites to work for me. I’ve read about Wutcha and other members’ successes but I feel likeIm saying the wrong things maybe. So I’d also like some tips on what to say to get kicked by a girl but I have no interest in sex.

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Permalink Reply by Bblove on February 1, 2018 at 5:55pm

I mean where is she, I’m on SA

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Permalink Reply by Shaun P on February 1, 2018 at 7:04pm

I subbed for ~2 months. It took me a bit to get success... my first week, I wasn't having much luck.

You can certainly find people who call themselves dommes who want to charge $200+ an hour and will just do it, depending on where you live.

But I kind of took an approach of:

1. Add mention of liking getting kicked to your profile.

2. Send normal messages, like you would on a dating site, "Oh hey, how was your week", and tell a joke, etc. Then after a bit of back and forth, I slip in the mention of it asking what they think.

Easily over 50% of the people wouldn't message me after that, but I've found 4 people who actually kicked me... and some other people who were interested and who just didn't pursue. One girl did it for free, I gave her oral, she gave me oral, and we overall just became friends. One girl basically charged me $100, but she was fantastic (she was a black belt), and she let me smoke some of her weed lol. I met up with both of those girls twice.

Overall, even from the people I didn't meet, they mentioned it was refreshing having a personable guy and not some old creep who just started off saying, "Hey do this weird thing, and I'll pay you".

FYI, I'm 31 years old and in shape. I'd say I look pretty normal and not particularly attractive.