Sandra's Interview

[Sandra]

I'm restarting my interview again so feel free to ask away.

[Sandra]

I have a few pair of shoes i like to wear, they do include boots, clogs, pumps and sandals and these cute tennis shoes. 

[Foo Bar]

When you buy a new pair of shoes, do you like to "break them in" on your bf's balls?

[Sandra]

No, I've never taken any form of self defense, but you really don't need to with ballbusting.

[0dsebdsntei4p]

Sandra - What sort of guy would you find appealing to ballbust?  A guy that you might meet that somehow it seemed as though he would be interested in taking kicks or knees into his balls with you having enough interest to find out if it would lead to your getting to do him.  I suspect the optimum isn't any guy, but is there a type of guy that would get your interest piqued, that would get the hormones flowing?  Making you want to do him and if he showed an interest actually working into a ballbusting arrangement? 

[Sandra]

To meet with? someone i'm very comfortable with, someone I know and trust. The hormones flow fast when I'm able to bust jerks on very rare occasions, but obviously nothinf sexual, the only guy i want to do that with is my bf. 

[T]

Hello Sandra,

Between causing pain or having control, where do you think you fit in? Is it more about having that kind of power over men, or is it a sadistic streak you are catering to?

[Sandra]

Oh, i have to say it's both but also it's the target i'm hitting. It's not about the pain itself, but about the area I'm causing pain to. The control is a nice side benefit of bb, I've used it for the sole purpose of control.

[Johnny BB Goode]

Sandra, it IS all about the area in which you're causing pain. If you could only slap a man in the face or stomp on his foot, would you ever have the same feelings about it or drive to do it again? I would assume not. It's that naughtiness of hitting him in his sex organs that makes it so much fun for you, right?

[Sandra]

It's definitely all about the area and what it is.

[Andy Lee]

Hey Sandra. Great to see you're doing this interview again! Just a few questions.

Do you sometimes actively seek out busting? Like for fun, perhaps with a busting buddy or something? Do you get those times/feelings where you're in need of busting someone? Haha.

Also you said in a reply to a recent question that in a busting situation, that it's more than just about the pain, it's about the target you're hitting. Was this solely for a fun (bb buddy) situation, or for self defense? Perhaps both?

Finally, in that self defense story (which I have to say, is one of my favourites of yours) did you feel proud that you not only handled yourself well, and protected yourself, but the fact that you did so by striking the man's testicles, and causing him strong testicular pain?

Thanks again for doing this interview, it's been a while since I've seen you on. :)

[Sandra]

I usually answer questions within a few weeks of getting them, at least i hope that's the case. I have a busting buddy, so i assume that makes me seek it out sometimes. I've also have had very strong urges that compelled me to do some ball busting.

Why am i targeting solely that area on a man? I don't know, i just know I do. I know I definitely have a bb fetish, but i don't know why. 

Do you mean my situation that happened while i was camping? I know at the time, I was pretty shaken up and grateful I was able to handle myself when I had to. Eventually the pride, confidence and arousal started growing with time which seems to be pretty common with other women.

[Andy Lee]

Hey Sandra! Ah that's cool, and yeah, take as much time as you need to reply. Glad you have a busting buddy, but I had no idea that the urges became so strong! Makes me wonder if you've ever gone out of your way just to bust some balls, haha. As in, if you ever went outside of a busting buddy just to get your fix, lol.

And all good on the fetish side. I think it's one of those things that are hard to explain, or even understand. I'm sure it's a mix of things. a) it's a target that has a high success rate in bringing someone down, b) it's symbolic, like it's a man's source of power, and c) I'm sure genitals play a big part (why I like BB and CB, but not so much TB for eg) and probably why this fetish is so large.

And yes, that self defense camping story of yours. It's true that many women on here look back and feel pride and arousal, from something that at the time was pretty scary and nerve-racking. I'm just curious if your method of self defense also heightens the arousal part. You didn't just defend yourself against an attacker, you also left his nuts in high amounts of pain, and possibly even bruised a testicle by the sounds of it all. I just love hearing stories and points of view like this. It's what keeps me coming back to this site. :)