What do you do when your partner doesn't want to kick you in the nuts, but you want it?

[Trevor Swevel]

The title of this reads like something out of cosmopolitan but replace "kick you in the nuts" with "sex". Lol anyway, what do you guysdo? I usually self bust myself to the cadence of a video with a hot chick in it (Joe and Violet's vids often serve the purpose) and I'm always hurting a ton by the end of it. (If anyone else has self bb tips respond in the comments too!) but yeah. Curious to hear your guys thoughts!

[justaboy]

Before I met my gf and busts were few and far between, my main method would be self-busting. Usually I'd find a pic of one of my favorite porn stars (Liz Vicious was always a favorite of mine) and look at it and bust myself and imagine the girl was busting me. Usually it would be a pic of a girl smiling or laughing, or standing over the camera looking down, as if she had just busted me and put me on the floor. On rare occasions I'd have access to a shoe or a worn pair of panties or some other object and I'd use them as aids.

[rish]

I had this really weird game I used to play, where I would watch babestation and every time she touched her boobs I would smack myself in the nuts.
Now I watch some self Ballbusting instruction videos, can find some great ones on motherless.com. It's so sexy having a hot girl instruct you how to bust your own balls.

[tsm89]

For me, sometimes it's a matter of getting her in the mood. Numerous things have worked for me: playful rough-housing, slapping her in the vag, smacking her boobs (got this idea from some of my friends here, shoutout!), playfully nagging and annoying her. By the end of the night, I usually know I'll be finding myself at her mercy. For me, the key is keeping it playful. But also realizing that sometimes she's really just not in the mood and as much as it sucks, I have to respect that. On those nights, I don't really do anything about it, it just makes the next time all the better.

[0wgk2n97omb5u]

I only self-bust. A tennis/squeeze ball in a sock or a wooden backscratcher usually gets the job done. Why wouldn't a partner want to hit you in the nuts? lol 

[Trevor Swevel]

You tell me lol. There's just some days she isnt into it and doesn't feel like it