Not masturbating before a busting date

I'm seeing my lady friend tonight, and she plans to bust my balls. It's been just over a month since I last saw her. She told me not to masturbate today so I will be extra "full" when we play tonight. I'm obeying her, of course. But I'm super nervous - I have a feeling it's going to hurt even more than normal.

So a question for the ladies: Do you usually ask/tell your man not to masturbate before a BB date? Do you think it makes the busting more painful? Or is it a psychological thing? What are your feelings about the relationship of blue balls and ball busting?

And for the gents: Does your special lady require you to keep "hands off" before a date? Does it, in fact, make it hurt more? Does it affect your playtime other ways?

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Permalink Reply by 0ei3nyanwxvv9 on May 3, 2015 at 10:44pm

No, I usually just have mines empty, I'm not sure about it being any different if they were full or not. I'm having one tomorrow! :) have fun mate, cheers!

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Permalink Reply by Silent Warrior on May 3, 2015 at 11:50pm

In my last session we actually used the BB as a buildup to an edging session. She was so damn good at BB that the edging session was just that much better.

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Permalink Reply by 1bfrdnz9krlhs on May 4, 2015 at 1:30am

So I didn't masturbate for a week before my last busting. Partially because I thought it'd be easier to take such a vicious beating if I was horny throughout.

I can't say that I feel a huge different in the sensation of pain. Although after busting, when everything is sore, if I don't masturbate I feel as though I can feel the pressure building up very painfully.