Is ballbusting an addiction?

[KingMe]

So I was wondering, would you consider ballbusting addictiv? It just seems the more it happens the more I want it to happen.

[Mike Brown]

Definitely!

If I haven’t been busted for a few days, all I can think about is seeing my regular busting buddy for a session!

[KingMe]

"so vulnerable, compromised and at the mercy of the angel you adore, admiring her in all her gorgeous glory as she dishes out the type of punishment that pushes you to your limits and sometimes beyond"

I figured this belonged in a quote lol

[Lexeme]

I wish people wouldn't mix separate things like fetishes (ingrained preferences) and addiction. It's a common way of stigmatizing anyone who doesn't have a so-called 'normal' sexuality as somehow being pathological and it's totally inaccurate. You can be a 'sex addict' fetish or not, if that's even the right term outside of pop psychology these days, I dunno.

Anyway I can go just fine without BB for long periods, but it's my thing.. it's what actually does it for me. I discovered I was into it at like age 5 (Or it discovered me... lol).  The endorphins, that comes after. (And they don't even really have to). I'm sure it can be addictive for some... so can anything else.

[Harvey B]

It is probably a question my subconscious carefully avoids, as I like to think I am not addicted and I am just having a while lot of fun ! however, given the large amount of time I spend on KITG despite a lot of responsibilities, I might need to rethink the issue :)

That is were I would put the limit between fetish and addiction: when it starts to interfere with daily obligations. But KITG is so ba... so good, I have an excuse !!!

[KingMe]

Lol so do I, and as long as it doesn't interfere with daily obligations, I'm gonna keep doing it and I am going keep coming here because I love it. KITG is awesome !

[Harvey B]

You see, 2nd time I check the website today: I am leaning towards the addiction! :)

[KingMe]

DUN DUN! Its like my 6th time, guess I am an addict :D

[KingMe]

There is a lot of good responses on here, I would have I agree with the fact a lot of people bring up. That it's only an addiction if it negatively impacts your life, at least that is what I have always thought. Some said that is the way they are sexually wired, which also makes sense. I guess it depends on who you ask. Me personally, I can be a very aggressive a person and I have been known to be a prick. Ballbusting is not only sexually gratifying, but I feel it also takes me down a notch, makes me more obedient, tender, and romantic. The harder and more my wife bust my balls the more intense these emotions are. It just raises another question for me though. Is it the pain from the ballbusting that I love so much or it is it the power it gives my wife?

[Dave]

I think it's definatley the power exchange. I have no desire to whack myself in the nuts or god forbid a dude ever hit me the nuts I'd probably be on trial for attempted murder. For me it's being rendered as vulnerable as possible to the woman I love and trust most and seeing how far she will push me, how sexy she is when empowered with full control over me. In my head I somehow want to "suffer for her" as if the more punishment I can endure for her, the more it proves my passion and loyalty. That's a subconcious dynamic that I feel which I doubt she's really tuned into or understands. She just finds it funny. She gets a kick out of the faces I may make or the noises and the whole concept of me being beaten down by her can be amusing to her, and while she'll probably never understand why or how it turns me on and perhaps I don't know exactly what it is or why it is either, she knows that it makes for a type of foreplay that brings out the animal in me for "payback time" when the power shifts back to me and often makes for enhanced sexual encounters that I think or at least I hope she finds more satisfying than normal. It seems to me like it was the "afterfuck" following some of our earliest ballbusting encounters that really got her hooked on wanting to do it more often and start to really push the limits with it a little bit as it went from something kind of funny and amusing to her to something that had satisfying and rewarding benefits for her two. It opened up a deeper connection between us as it's obviously not something I share with too many people and once it became apparent that she was cool with it, I obviously fell that much deeper in love with her and I think she sort of embraced the dynamic a bit which made our relationship better, stronger and more perfect.

The fetish for me is all about the empowerment of the woman. I'm a big fan of foot worship, trample and face sitting as well. I'm not very submissive in day to day life at all but I want to feel as though my woman is the world's ultimate Goddess, I want to put her on the pedestal and worship her, love her, sacrifice for her and adore her in every possible way she or I can think of. I think the act of ballbusting portrays a level of power, dominance and erotic strength in the percieved weaker female and the pain to me represents the sacrifice, devotion, humbleness, dedication and captivation I feel for her, so much so that I am willing and wanting to put myself completely at her mercy for her amusement.

I wouldn't really have the desire to be busted by I woman I wasn't attracted to, but when attracted to a woman, I think that seeing her practice ball busting or being in tune and into the empowerment she can derive from it, it just increases her sex appeal ten fold. It's all about the power exchange and the dynamic that goes with it that makes it sexy to me. I think I would enjoy doing ball busting with cute girls for fun and for their amusement if they were friends of both my wife and I if she was cool with it and they just wanted to sort of experience the dynamic or be entertained or surprised by my ability to endure it just for shits and giggles, I'd be totally cool with going down that road. I've built a fairly decent tolerence for this stuff so I could probably take a couple of kicks from pretty much anyone but if didn't at least find the girl somewhat attractive it wouldn't do a whole heck of a lot for me sexually and I think it would pretty much just hurt. haha.

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

Yes it is extremely addictive. When am busting balls I love it, I want more of it. The urges get stronger, and want to bust longer and harder, and Sometimes I just don't want to stop.