hard to find people who understand

[a. francis hays]

Hi all.  My problem has been finding someone local who is not 100 lbs overweight and understands a man likes a nutkicking.  Women see that as so weird.  Tried fetlife and Dommes want too much

any ideas?

[3n52spszh442j]

I'm in my forties, but I joined just sos I could comment on this: Everyone has their needs, and I respect that, but I gotta tell ya bro, Scale of one to ten, a woman being willing to enjoy some nice ball kicking with me is like an automatic 9. Sight unseen.  Maybe she lives in a cave and is missing some chromosomes; 9.  Maybe she's bald and had limburger for lunch; 9.  I'm sure you're very attractive and deserve someone equally so in your life, but until that happens, why limit yourself? Or them?

[a. francis hays]

I see your point - my scale is 5 and above.  Cool with your approach if it works for you.

[Mike Brown]

I have always used prostitutes.

Better than a Dominatrix and you get sex at the end of the session!

Most of them will kick a man in the balls.

I met my current main busting buddy about 5 years ago.

She was working in a brothel and I saw her for sex a few times.

When we got to know her a bit, I broached the subject and she said she would kick me in the balls.

I have now been seeing her regularly and she has learnt to do all the things I like.

[a. francis hays]

I've tried a Dominatrix and she refused and I have never considered a prostitute.  I might now.

I am happy for you.  

[35m6lqa9shwoi]

patience. i know i tried fetlife too or collarme and the ladies who do, want your money.

[Bob Johns]

It seems for most women this is a sexual thing.  As such it seems the best approach is to try to find someone that you would want a relationship with and then go from there.