OK ladies, what questions do you hate being asked the most while in chatrooms?

[greeneyedsusan]

For me it's when a guy asks me when was the last time I busted a guy in the balls, even if it's been only three weeks, they'll respond with "Why so long? or "That's a long time ago". When in all reality it's pretty frigin recent, even a bust that's five months old is fairly recent. Girls aren't busting machines, we don't go around kicking balls on a daily basis. So the next time a girl says two month ago, you can respond by say, "Oh, very cool" or something very similar. Thank you and have a nice day.

[balzac]

GESusan, great topic! thanks for posting it and thanks for all (well, almost all) of the replies...you, know what I mean...the constructive ones.

[greeneyedsusan]

Hello Balzac,

No problem, I'm very happy you find the post constructive. I hope it remains that way too.

[Nancy the Band Nerd]

For me, it's when I'm asked if I have a special outfit that I like to wear when I bust balls like I'm some kind of mistress or a domme. The answer is no, i don't have a special outfit i like to wear because most of my busts are unplanned, it's what ever I have on for the day.I don't have special shoes either, i agree with Tina when it come to the subject of best shoes to use. you'd be surprised how many time I've been asked this question.

[Charles Drew]

I sort of alluded to the shoe thing in my response to Tina above, but I think that the shoes one receives the kicks from are part of the fantasy for some people. I can only truly speak for myself, but if a lot of people are asking about shoes I can assume that others share my interest, but I think that it is part of some guys' fantasies to believe that certain women purchase footwear based on their ballbusting potential. Sure, it's probably very unrealistic, but it is hot to fantasize about a girl going to the shoe store and grabbing a pair of pointy stillettos or platforms with the idea that they'd be particularly effective for busting. So, for what it's worth, I think that's the reason that you get that question so much.

[Sandra]

I read through all of the complaints and I have some very good news, I haven't experienced any of these problems on this Chat : ) but I've experienced all of them, mostly on Yahoo Messenger and it really does get old. When you read each complaint, just multiply each one by many and you'll know what we experience, it can make our visit to a chat room very unpleasant. Two days ago on YM I had a guy ask me to take pictures of my feet from different angles and to also take picture of my shoes from various angles and start emailing them to him. He didn't understand my refusal, like I was to jump up and accommodate his ridiculous request. This was a one time situation so far, but I though it was an interesting situation that I wanted to share with you all.

[RedRider]

That's the kind of guy that deserves to be busted just for being an asshole. Even taking in account that nature of the people on this site, that is just plain rude.

Honestly I'd just enjoy having a normal conversation with you. Requesting lots of pictures like that, uggh, even as a guy things like that piss me off. It's not even a femdom thing to think women should be treated well.

but what do i know lol

[Tyler]

Thumbs up to you.

[Sandra]

Well, i wouldn't bust him for that, I just make myself invisible to him on YM.

[Jennifer Maria]

when i try to talk about other stuff but all the guy wants to talk about is balls but then there have been times people wanted to talk about other stuff and i didnt, but i try not to be so obsessive

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

AHEM!!!! I made an entire VIDEO GAME section thread on this website at your request. I hear nothing but crickets over there young lady. dvhour <--- shakes his head and says tsk tsk :)

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

What exactly do you agree with Gail? I'm providing a platform for you and the other members to speak their mind. This thread is very popular so its a good idea to get all your gripes out, cause this will help to improve this website and help build better communication between you ladies and us fellas. :)

[Sarah]

My God, yes, I'll be talking to a guy and then he'll either post or send a picture of his balls to me while were chatting. Guys, please ask us first, most of you do ask, but not all of you.