TRUE STORY: "It would totally be fun to ballbust you with another girl..."

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

THIS IS A TRUE STORY!!!

(minus the photos, which are used to showcase a similar style shoe/boot and to draw you in hee hee)

Several days ago I received a message out of the blue from a gal (named Kalz) her message read… “So I was thinking it would totally be fun to ballbust you with another girl. What do you think? :D ”

FLASHBACK

Kelz is someone I've had a crush on for at least 2 years. We are FB and FET friends but I primarily see her at kink parties and kink events from time to time. We both love comic books and super hero films, we both dig similar bands and eclectic forms of music, she has baked goods for my community bake sales, we have gone out for a meal on several occasions, we both share a love for hosiery (hosiery being my ultimate kink) and we shared ONE absolutely phenomenal BB date a little less than two years ago. Honestly it was one of the more brutal BB play dates that I can recall because she's rather small so I let her go to town on my balls with very few limits for three intense hours, big mistake. I say big mistake because BB isn't her thing, she saw it as a very casual thing and she doesn't have lots of experience as a Top! She's mostly a bottom, submissive, rope bunny and masochist. Generally speaking on paper she's my complete opposite. GASP!

HERE'S A TIP

Don't ever permit someone free reign and unlimited access to your mind and body parts when you are not committed to that person in some way or if that person doesn't share a deep affection and caring for you or if they don't genuinely share your fetish. It was a really confusing situation at the time for me personally because I unfairly and shallowly fell hard for Kalz, which I don't usually do and she had no idea what was in my head because I didn't know how to properly articulate it at the time. PLUS it took me several weeks to physically heal from our bb session... and even longer to deal with the emotional scars... but that's cool... I get it, she had a new bf at the time and she was and has openly explored as a bottom, submissive, rope bunny and masochist.... she rarely tops or plays a dominant role and I should know better, because generally speaking she and I do not share compatible kink interests or paths... I get it, I get it... sigh...

WHY KELZ HAS RENEWED INTEREST?

So why all of a sudden does Kelz have this renewed interest and mysterious craving to play with me and some mysterious gal??? Hmmmm... could it be because I was having a three-way kissing and erotic touch fest with my date and another woman a few weeks ago at one kink party? Kelz even came to sit right by my side as my date and this other woman and myself continued to explore each other in a deep steamy and passionate moment.... BTW this is something I've never actually done before... Hmmmmm... could it be one of the 4 women that I gave foot massages to throughout the night who went on to rewarded me by sensually slipping their soles under my silky boxers as they did some light cock and ball trample shortly after their massages. Well they had some encouragement it wasn't fully their ideas said the mischievous Dvhour...  Hmmmmm... could it be the one gal who had me stand up as she playfully did medium powered kicks to my balls for a good 15 or so minutes as my date watched on and while Kalz was being held down, stimulated to multiple climaxes by two women at a table directly to my left... I know this sounds like a raunchy and fictional wet dream and made up fantasy, but I can assure you this is 1000% true or at least 999.8% true and yes it happened two weekends ago and yes at both parties I wore a cape... I'll be frank, these explicit activities I'm not known to do at public kink events, matter of fact its totally out of character. Generally speaking I prefer my privacy and I'm typically not one for playing with more than one gal at a time. I've certainly done BB play with more than one woman but its not usually my preference. At any rate any one of these exchanges could have triggered Kelz interest.

BACK TO THE STORY

Kalz: “So I was thinking it would totally be fun to ballbust you with another girl. What do you think? :D ”

DV: “I’m open, Sure! Who did you have in mind?”

Kalz: "I want to co-top with your new partner (Vanilla K)...  I’m interested in letting my domme side out with this scene specifically. :D”

Notice all the HUGE smiles=> ":D" <=they are her's, not mine.

WHO IS VANILLA K???

So who is Vanilla K you ask???? Well Vanilla K has been my steady intimate partner and VERY important friend for the past 4 months. Though this story is mainly about Kelz... I have to confess: Without Vanilla K in my life this would never have happened. I'm gonna have to share some wondrous stories about my precious Vanilla K and her wicked desires and yummy cravings. She's my magnificent Phoenix, my Warrior Princess and Diva Goddess rolled up into a fun-filled anomaly and succulent treasure feasting upon my fantasy realm. Its because of her that intimacy and kink is actually fulfilling in a most meaningful way. I'm thankful she is part of my world, she elevates me beyond the kink and sexy time, but most of all she's a friend first and foremost. YAY!! 

When I was talking to Vanilla K several days ago I mentioned that I haven't had a duo BB play date like this before. But that is definitely not correct!!! I do confirm that I have had multiple BB experiences with two or more women on more than a dozen occasions. I wasn't lying or trying to hide something, I just do not view those other experiences with the same weight and meaning. As I started to write this post, it became a form of cerebral therapy and a way to analyze the meaningfulness of a potential duo playdate with Kalz, Vanilla K and myself.

WHATS THE DIFFERENCE?

There are THREE things that are different about this duo playdate: (1) I’ve never had a situation where I’ve been so helplessly attracted to both women scening with me who seemingly have a genuine attraction and affection for me as they do towards each other. Not saying that this is going to be an orgy of sex and sin I'm just saying the chemistry has never been so potent and sincere. My past BB duo experiences though they were lots of fun and amazing – they were flimsy at best – with no plan, no sincere engagement, no invested emotional energy or caring. I feel both these women see this as an elevating and meaningful experience just as much as I do. (2) It is a highly unusual occasion in my 46 years on this planet earth where a female has actively sought me out specifically and expressly to satisfy her ballbusting cravings and desires and to do so with another woman who has that same craving and genuine interest. Pardon my inner BB fanboi but thats just pure fantasy and I don't believe it .... NOPE ... NOPE ... FAKE NEWS ... I don't believe it... ITS A FACT... I'm ALWAYS the BB hunter!!! This is literally among the very rare times I'm the BB hunted. I'm not used to that, so please allow me to bask in the glowy awe and humility of it all. (3) Lastly and most importantly, I've never had a Vanilla K type of relationship, where it was so genuine, healthy, consistent, nurturing and exploratory. She sees me as an equal partner in our exploration and she intimately craves to physically hurt, seduce and protect me all at the same time. She's not just saying do not to worry about it and let it flow... she is actively asking questions and raising possibilities and active in the planning and the overall psychology of this engagement. As a couple we are not over thinking it we are merely being responsible and thoughtful to all parties involved.

Vanilla K and I do not see ballbusting as a free-for-all kink or a selfish activity thats one sided for the buster or bustee. Ballbusting to us is a very intimate and deeply personal exchange where all parties need to be on the same page of what that scene is and each party needs to be aware of the risks, concerns and head space. All too often we are exposed to irresponsible BB behaviours and haphazard interactions with no real purpose or care. I feel that I need to set an example and help to raise the bar for how we view ourselves in this kink. This is what I consider a Dream Duo BB Play Date... I hope my words, my actions and thought process will inspire something meaningful in your minds. 

I’ll keep you all posted….

SIMILAR STYLED SHOES THIS IS NOT VANILLA K

Vanilla K is about 5’7” or 5’8” and kinda built like Xena the Warrior Princess. She owns a pair of boots similar to those pictured below. She has playfully nudged and mildly kicked me with a pair similar to these a few times. Apparently she has some BB stories but I haven't attempted to pry them from her mind yet. Stay tuned...

SIMILAR STYLED SHOES THIS IS NOT KELZ

Kalz is about 5’1 or 5’2” and kinda built like Violet (Joe’s gf Violet) ... she has a pair of boots similar to these… she has kicked me pretty hard and stood on my cock and balls with a pair similar to boots like these... YIKES!!!

[JLex]

dvhour, did you ever write about your BB dates with 2+ women? I'm curious, both sexually but also intellectually, about what that's like. The idea of a BB date with one man and multiple women blows my mind a little. Also, any kind of power play date with 1 sub and multiple doms is like catnip to me, whatever the genders involved.  

[Donovan Omar]

Dv, you are a lucky man

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

 

@Liquid Metal 

This is not something that I'm used to sir! Here's the deal, in the past this would ONLY be possible with pro dommes and every single time it happened with a pro it totally screwed up the chemistry of any type of real connection. Matter of fact I did have a really great relationship and chemistry with an ex pro domme who would eventually invite me to her house in exchange for my IT experience or just so she could bust some balls cause she missed it. At any rate you are correct for the most part pro dommes are specifically about the money and generally speaking are no good when it comes to bb cause they only do it cause its "a thing" .. many do not have bb as a genuine interest or genuinely crave to do it. 

Aside from that  as far as lifestyle (non pay dommes go) I have been mega fortunate that there are many women in my city who have warmed up to BB. Part of that has to do with me contributing dialog and activity to the community. When I first started in the BB community in Winnipeg 8 years ago there was 1 female who identified as a bb lover... NOW there are more than a dozen or more and growing who appear to want to kick balls around. Some of these women have become very good friends and I adore them but as I get older and as I become more picky I don't just want just anyone kicking my stuff around. BB is intimate and personal and it requires a mental state where I want to have a deeper relation with the people I'm playing with.

Some of these gals kick without any rhyme or reason, without eye to eye contact or without any kind of consistent relationship or play. That to me is not what I want and though I know they care about me on some level they are going along with an activity rather than a sincere bonding. I mean truly I sound like a nut saying this because most guys would kill to be in that position to have women down to bust balls whenever but really when you think about the dangers and potential longevity of bb you have to put in perspective the importance of your physical health (keeping your balls in tact) and just who is doing the damage to your bits. 

I do still think this is a dream situation and who knows how many more years I have with this kink or even an opportunity like this but what I will say is if you discover a kink community and you explore with non bb gals your potential to find a bb gal grows tremendously if you can introduce them to this kink in a healthy and sane way. That is the case of my Vanilla K she is kinky I told her about BB and over the past 4 months I never pressure her about it and slowly but surely she has a greater interest the less I put it in her face. 

Liquid if your wife lets you explore in a community in your city I'm sure you can discover a situation that will permit you to have two women who genuinely just want to enjoy this experience with you. 

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

@Trent 

 I take great pride in being  good communicator and I value my ability write and spell out my thoughts. To hear your words is very meaningful to me, I appreciate you posting. Thanks! 

[Liquid Metal]

Amazing, this actually happens to people.. 

For most of us, this is the stuff only in dreams or fantasies will it ever be.. 

I've never had any situation even close to this, and any of the places that promised to be something like this, have always turned out to be some commercialized way to extract maximum monetary value out of me for insultingly minimal amount of what was promised.. 

Marketing never lived up to the reality. 

Being married is the closest thing I've gotten, and I cherish my relationship, but honestly with every other human interaction I've ever had other than my wife, I feel like they just wanted to take advantage of me. 

I see people who are able to simply approach others with these sort of ideas, and they come aboard. 

For me, it's never been that way. 

[Trent]

You're an exceptionally wonderful writer.  Keep us posted and have a swell time!

[Joe]

That sounds fun.  It's a great story.

[Weak dude]

Awesome

[Balls2Bust]

Those boots would just be so intense and awesome to be busted by!!!

[Nikolai Zvezda]

Lucky devil :)