So I was in a bit of a downward spiral (sex addiction fueled by alcohol, weed and a bit of narcissism helped with that).  I was 30, and after 10 years of heavy drinking, eating whatever I wanted, working in an office and not exercising, life was catching up to me, mentally and physically.  That is until about 8 months earlier when I decided I needed a change.  So I hit the gym and by the time this story really starts was in the best shape of my life.  I had also expended a bit of cash on…