Wife thinks its weird

[Rich Newton]

Hi everyone,

Before my wife found out about my fetish she used to pretend to hit me in the balls but not actually do it. But now I have told her, she says it is strange that I would like pain down there even though she is half the reason she kept it alive when she didn't even realize. I was just wondering if anyone has had any experience with turning a person into thinking it is weird into liking it as I have always guessed she did with the joking way she used to do it to me?

Thanks for your help

[playfight]

how old u 2 are and how long married

[volcan51]

Analizing your writing, i could say, you are basically screwed. According to my experience you can actually convince her, but a really high price, because she probably feels that it degrades her to indulge your fetish. In my experience i always bring the topic in the first three dates, with positives results, i think if you like it, she will also like it, remember the boner doesn`t lie. if you see she likes it, then after you can adjust the experience more to your convenience

[Mallory {The Boss}]

Well, you didn't ask the female's POV Rich, but I'm gonna tell you: I thought bb was weird.

Now I'm Admin of a bb site, so what does that tell you? So fucking what if someone thinks

ballbusting is weird...I'M weird...we're all weird...weird is WONDERFUL! You've already

got a huuuge reason to be hopeful because of her playfulness with pretending to hit you

in the nutts. Imagine how much funn SHE would have by actually doing it then :) Forget

yourself for minute and think of HER point of view. Explain to her that her playfulness 

about pretending to hit your nutts was a turn-on because it was her exerting power over

you and your most vulnerable area. I'm telling you, the power trip over a man's balls is

a high like no other ;) Tell her when you're both in a playful, sexxy mood that it excited

you when she'd pretend to hit you in the nutts and you liked her having that power over

you...then ask if she would like to really try it, to see if she likes having that power too. 

If she gets hooked on the power trip, you can then both enjoy some playful bb funn. Guys

make this mistake all the time, only thinking of their own enjoyment of bb--THINK OF 

YOUR GIRL'S ENJOYMENT FIRST because if she loves it, how much greater will the whole

experience be if you can share some playful, erotic ballbusting together?? Good luck :)

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

In line with what Mallory says above, one thing I absolutely MAKE sure of, is to absolutely ensure that my wife gets as much pleasure as possible while she's attacking my balls. use your fingers, oral, etc, make sure she's having a serious good time with this, reward her with the best sensations ever, if this is what you want her to do, make sure she wants to do it too!! Like was said before, make sure the experience isn't just about pleasing you, and she will always be happy to do it. 

I will say I need to admit I still haven't gotten my wife to kick me, she will knee me, and she will squeeze. I am still trying to figure out how to introduce those other concepts, which may not be too difficult, since kneeing, and squeezing are both working well. She seems to like it more when it's more close, intimate, and steping back to kick me might be too distant for her, is what I am thinking. Haven't exactly sat and discussed it though, LOL. 

We also have young kids, who we don't wanna wake up in the night with loud thumps, and stuff too, so that also plays into it as well.. 

[Hurts!]

This is exactly the reason I will never tell my GF about it, the thought and threat and the fact she doesn't know I don't like it it's awesome, and if I was to tell her it could ruin it (and my relationship)

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

Missing a tremendous opportunity. No reason it should ruin your relationship, unless you are soliciting busts from other women..