Session Length

[Brian M]

Hi all,

I’m curious to hear how long your ballbusting sessions with your significant other usually are. My wife and I usually do about an hour to 90 minutes from start to finish, with the start being foreplay and the finish being mutual orgasm, unless it’s more of an edging session for me where I’m forced to wait until the next day, weekend etc.

Sometimes I feel a bit selfish that my fetishes (B.B, T&D) are so involved, and take so much time. Have any of you figured out a way to have shorter sessions, a ballbusting quickie if you will?

[John Franks]

BB quickies are easy to make happen if you change up the location. One session I did was in a public park at night. We found a small grove of trees we could hid in and be somewhat hidden from people walking past. But with that situation, we were only able to be out there for 20 minutes before it was too cold to keep going. Also neither of us wanted to be caught busting in public, so the excitement of the play only lasted about 20 minutes.

[Brian M]

That’s a great idea, we’ve never done anything outside the home. We’ll have to try it, did you ever get caught by anyone?

[Jax]

I'm single so I can't speak to the length of a session with a significant other but when I book with models to shoot a video clip I typically make arrangements for 4 hrs.  It takes roughly 1-1.5 hrs to shoot a clip and I do 2 clips in a 4 hour period and the residual time we take a break between the two videos and grab a drink or a bite to eat.  If I'm booking with someone and I've got to lug around tripods and light equipment and rent a hotel room or studio its not worth it to just do one video so I try to get as much out of it as I can.  Naturally its not 4hrs of none stop hard core ballbusting, not only would I be unable to take it very long but I also prefer the more playful and sensual busting sessions.   

[Brian M]

The wife and I came up with a little game, it didn’t make it shorter but kind of spread it out. Basically every time she saw me, even if it was just going to get something from another room and coming back, she would give me a little shot in the nuts. She did this all day so by the time we got into bed I was already pretty sore and had been walking around with an erection most of the day. Our actual play time in bed was a lot shorter but still exciting!

[Dustin]

Usually me and Annie will only spend 15-20 minutes busting/getting busted. After that we usually have more other fun as well but the busting it's self has probably never lasted more than 45 minutes for us. Seems short compared to you guys

[Annie]

Yeah, generally one session is 10 minutes ish of hits and such.. it strongly depends on my mood and energy levels. They can go up to 20 or 30 (rarely 30 but maybe once or twice). He seems to get sore pretty quick when I do a lot of little, fast hits.. like 5-8 in a row; they don't even need to be hard/effort-full. When you go fast with hits, no breaks no breathing no falling allowed, they add up; Right, Dustin, Honey? <3

[Brian M]

Thanks for sharing both of you! Dustin, i think Annie might be a little more rough with you than my wife is, maybe that's the secret, really ask her to amp up the intensity. Annie, do you ever get tired of bb and just want a more vanilla time in bed, or do you find it a fun part of your bedroom activity? Or is it something you do on occasion, not an obiligatory part of intimacy? 

[Annie]

Honestly, I try to hit him way more than he appreciates xD It's become a habit and a reflex (and a hindrance at times) but I'm rarely rough with those. So no, unless my foot hurts, I don't get tired of it. It's not obligatory, but definitely a regular occurrence. And I have my own kinks and such brought in as well; Safe to say it's rarely a vanilla time. 

[justaboy]

I think my sessions probably take about 20-30 minutes. The busts themselves usually take up like 5-10 minutes; it's the humiliation/verbal afterward that take up most of the time.

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

In about 15 years I've played with close to 130 women in Asia, Europe, USA and Canada this is from gals on USBBonline, pro dommes and lifestyle dommes, kinksters, and vanilla gfs. The USBB days were all business no nudity but between shooting and taking a few breaks our shoots would go for at least 5 to 6 hours (every 2nd Sunday or once a month) with close to 10 to 12 women per shoot with maybe a good 2 to 3 solid bb hours I suppose. With pro dommes always a minimum of 1 1/2 hours, but it becomes costly if you want to do more plus they don't tend to be BB gals to begin with its annoying, I rarely go to dommes now because I live in a kinkster lifestyle community. Gfs it has always been more about doing it for my pleasure rather than their own so that was mixed with other intimacy but lots of bb and leg and foot play. Everyone else ranges from 2 hours to 5 hours. I must mention that the longer the session usually I build up a better tolerance and if she's into it then its fantastic. That is not very common but I can think of several sessions with local bb gals that went from light to hardcore brutal for several hours straight.. I also would like to mention that I mix in foot and leg massage in between bustings which in some cases has her leg or foot mashing, rubbing or molesting my cock and balls during the breaks. That said I would also like to mention that I get to play maybe once or twice every two months its not as regular as i'd like it and oddly enough lots of times they all occur within a nice chunk of time... also want to mention that as you get older your resistance to bb is not as great but sometimes it depends on your partner and your chemistry with your partner. 

I will say that pure ballbusters are not common. In my life I will say that I've met like 10 or so women who genuinely get a thrill out of beating balls... ahem ummm Mallory is definitely one of those women. She has a craving that will out last any bb dude. I used to play with this 6 foot Amazon who used to do marathons and martial arts, she was a pure and true bb goddess matter of fact that was all she had on her profile when I met her on FET.. she basically wanted to find a guy who she could kick in the balls because her vanilla bf was sick of her cheap daily and random ball kicks and knees... Dare I say she would crumble any male on this planet earth if she chose to but she held way back and would do it for a several hours ... I met a gal on this site once and we played for 3 days for 3 to 4 straight hours of nothing but BB with some light to mild bb trample ... i was sore for about 2 weeks... I have a friend here in my city who plays soccer (she loves kicking balls literally) ...she is a real lifestyle foot fetish gal but because she has a non bb bf who's jealous I very rarely get to see her in a kink manner... at any rate she really really really loves kicking and stepping on balls... a month or so ago she went to town kicking, stomping, grinding and kneeing my balls and I was surprised of my tolerance which was mixed with some sensual light to moderate c&b play. Blah blah blah I don't write much sorry to blab so long haha. I have many stories I don't share enough I feel.  I have a kink date this afternoon I'm getting her into bb, but we are taking it slow for now... we shall see where that leads but she's a real warrior princess with ling strong legs...

[Brian M]

Thanks for sharing, I've never had a session with someone I wasn't dating, so they're always the sort of bb foreplay and then something else. I guess sometimes I just start to feel guilty that to get me off there's all this preamble and kink  for like 30-45 minutes. and then for her it's like 15 minutes of what I'd call "regular" activity. 

Maybe im over thinking it, my wife says she liked doing it because of my reactions, we tend to have a more dominant male getting taken to his breaking point dynamic and not a dominant female enforcing her will sort of situation, but I can't help but think, "Jesus, over an hour for one orgasm, how selfish am I" 

[Annie]

Ah, now I get where you're coming from. Honestly, if your wife says she enjoys it/ doesn't mind catering to this specific type of foreplay then no, you don't have to/ shouldn't feel guilty or selfish. And if you do then do something about it. Just have an honest conversation, and take what she says at face value or ask for clarification if you really want to be sure. 

And if time is your biggest concern; maybe let her know what she can do to cut down on the time. (With my experience harder hits to the trick but that is definitely something she'll have to ease into if she doesn't go rough on you already)