Real Power- Are You Comfortable With it?

[Allen Witts]

This comes from a conversation I was having recently, when I realized something-

"There are guys online who bluster and all about how they can take anything, or how they want to be a woman's slave

I don't bluster as much. But I am entirely serious, and entirely for real.

When I say I'm interested in these things... I'm scared, as well. But I'm willing to give up that kind of power to somebody I trust. Does that make sense?"

I feel that many guys online, or at least how they portray themselves online, are over-the-top, seem fake or desperate or unreal.  They don't have... I guess a quiet confidence, an assurance in who and what they are, if that makes any sense.  What do people think of this idea, that many guys online seem to be all bluster?

BONUS- From a Reddit post, "What does it feel like to have balls?"

Best answer: "It feels like being a video game boss. You have a weak point and everyone knows it."

[justaboy]

It's easy to say "yes" and be up for all kinds of things when you're behind the computer screen, with no commitment. But once it starts getting "real", that's when the test begins to see if someone is really all they say. That's part of why alot of fetish sites that try to arrange meets don't work alot because one party loses their nerve at the last minute.

Alot of guys who say they're into busting without ever having been busted, sometimes I think some of them like the idea of ballbusting, or they love watching it and think it's something they'd love to engage in. But yet I'm betting there have been quite a few guys whose fetish ended when they finally got their first kick. I'm NOT saying that those guys who have never been kicked are in anyway "lesser" fans than the ones who have, but it's like the old saying goes: "You'll never truly know until you try it."

[playfight]

I m sure a lot of guys are bluster about bb like on any other subject u can find on internet but a lot of guys tried real hard ballbusting sometimes more then somebody who did not tried can understand. Ballbusting is sexual fetish so like in vanila sex it is not how hard and long was it then more how much they both enjoy it.

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

Yeah, I always get bugged by the commentators on people's vids that want them to go harder, and stuff, yet never post any videos of their own. I seriously doubt most of them can handle even what they are considering weak hits. 

I'm personally not "in to" extreme ballbusting, I am more interested in sensual erotic ballbusting, not designed to damage anyone, but to get that edge of pain mixed in with the pleasure. I am not as much into bondage, or donmination, or humilitation either, so I come from a different angle than most. I am also not here looking for fap material, or to vitrual flirt, and ballbust with strangers, so I am kind of an oddball I suppose. 

I like discussing what people have done with partners, and fun sexual ballbusting, kind of like the slogan above, LOL..