KITG Men, How is your self-esteem?

[smallball mcghee]

Im trying to understand the psychology behind ballbusting and other FEMDOM fetishes. I know for me, my confidence is sorta low and i dont feel that im good enough for alot of woman. The thought of these women busting me out of rejection is very hot. But it is just as hot having a GF do this to me. 

I was just wondering if alot of guys involved in Femdom stuff have low selfesteems?

Or what is your thought on how your ballbusting fetish started?

[Michael]

When I was younger and more insecure... my self esteem was significantly lower. But now? I think I grew up, I know my value. But that doesn't mean that I wouldn't like some dominant behavior in a woman. i also like to treat a woman good. But I expect it the other way round as well.

[Mike Brown]

For me it started in a brothel, where I was a regular client of a woman in her 30's.

One day she had a younger girl (about 20) working for her, and I picked the younger girl.

After she had given me a massage and got me good and hard, she quoted me a price me hand relief, but I offered to pay for full sex.

She said no and kicked me in the balls.

The older woman heard the disturbance and came in, she helped me recover and then gave (sold) me the sex I wanted.

It was the best sex I had ever had!!

So, for me ballbusting became part of foreplay for great sex.

[3f707eam42xmh]

Did this girl kick you in the balls of her own accord, or did you tell her you liked that sort of thing?  If she kicked you because she said no, what did the older woman think about you getting kicked?

[348s1cnypsw9w]

my self estheem is bad and
i am destructive(not submissive really,i wanna be punished and destroyed by female physically)

[justaboy]

If anything, I might have the opposite problem of being more on the arrogant side. But I think that might also be a key factor in why I enjoy femdom and ballbusting/humiliation so much: that feeling of having the tables turned on me and being rendered helpless and beaten by a woman is a huge turn-on.

[Maskedguy 1.7]

part of my though, Self Esteem? normal, (not too high or low) ,BB is part of foreplay for me, & also about taking advantage of sensitive organ / body part, in mixed wrestling. Not really into femdom (i''ll explore them if i get the chance). i,m more into pain & pleasure and some fun in this kink..(not relating bb to anger or hate)..

i dont know if the guys in Femdom Stuff have low self esteem

i start = (fighting other boy in school he kicked my groin), then a girl swing object and hits my groin (testicles), i grow up watching bb incident in school . And i also saw bb scene in movies, scambleeggs website promote this fetish many years ago. i liked some of old bb pic and vids..i also read bb related comic, and chat at bb related social media.

[Kurt Rock]

I've been married for over a decade, and am overall very comfortable around women.  My wife knees/kicks me as a normal part of foreplay.  I've always enjoyed the feeling of a solid knee or boot to the balls.  However, I've always been a fan of watching women kick someone's ass.  I'm also a legs/butt guy rather than a "boobs" guy so that must also tie into my fetish somehow.  On the flip side, I have no interest in spanking, bondage, or other S&M activities, nor am I into cruel bloody torturous busting.  I'd rather stand and take 100 knees than to get one hard knee that takes me down for five minutes. I'm a solidly built 6'2" tall man but also don't seem to look at busting as the exploitation of a vulnerability.  If I'm being totally honest, I enjoy getting kicked/kneed by her anywhere (again, playfully...not cruel and bloody) not just busted.