Is Ballbusting Bad?

[Jay]

I have lived nearly my entire life with the ballbusting fetish. It seems to be something that is a part of me and that I can't resist or let go. However, I constantly feel like I am doing something wrong when I watch ballbusting videos or get aroused by thinking about ballbusting. I know that society views ballbusting as wrong or as a weird fetish. I really enjoy ballbusting and everything about it, but I can't seem to think I am doing something wrong and beating myself up about enjoying something that I shouldn't. So my question to all members; is ballbusting really that bad? And if it isn't, how do I shake that notion that it is and learn to live with this fetish.

I appreciate all comments and support. Thanks!

[Kurt Rock]

Bondage and spanking is a socially acceptable fetish.  I've never understood the difference between a woman slapping a man's ass as opposed to his balls.  Personally, I'm not into either of those but I consider them to be the same concept.  As with any fetish - there are extremes.  To each is own, but I can understand why someone would raise an eyebrow at a man putting his junk through a hole in a board and having a woman in stillettos put her weight on it, but videos like Kat and Joe make should be much easier for people to understand.  Bottom line is that pretty much any fetish is going to have partakers and critics.  Do what you want.

In regards to you thinking there's something wrong with it - if you have a legal encounter with a consenting adult (i.e., a session with a girlfriend), or legally download/view online content - it's your right and there's nothing "wrong" with it. 

[Tender Boy]

Great response by Pinballs there.  I agree with all of it.

Jay don't beat yourself up about enjoying ballbusting.  There's nothing morally wrong with it, it's 100% consensual and you're certainly not hurting anyone else.  And any pain that you receive is voluntary.  It's something you want to explore.

That isn't to say that BB is widespread and accepted and practiced by everyone and their grandmas and grandpas the world over, LOL.  

But I do suspect that lots of people have some interest in BB even if it's to a lesser degree than ours.  Consider how commonplace a ball-bust is in the movies, or how frequently you hear a girl playfully and flirtatiously threaten her boyfriend with a knee or something.  That doesn't mean she'll do it.  It doesn't mean she's "into" BB but there is some level of interest there, even if it's fleeting and in thought but not action.

We just take that thought and like to go further with it than most people.  There's nothing wrong with that.  It's just a matter of personal taste.

I've only (kind of) told two girls about my interest but neither one of them judged me in a bad way.  They were a little puzzled but accepting and nice about it.  They were reluctant to go very hard with me but only because they just weren't the type of person to be very physical like that and I think they worried (too much) that I would be hurt.  But there was no judgement.  They did not think I was "bad".  A little kinky?  Yeah, sure, probably.  LOL  But that's not a bad thing.  They didn't stop liking me.  And people won't stop liking you because of your BB interest either.  So try to just enjoy it and be yourself.