Introducing my Girlfriend to ballbusting

[BallbustingBatman]

Hey everyone, so I knows it's been a long time, but I recently have gotten into a new relationship. I told my girlfriend about my fetish, but I never asked her to actually try it out because I'm not sure how to. She makes jokes about it and also mentions it some, so I'm not sure whether she would be on board with doing it. If you all could give me suggestions on how to ask her to try it out, that would be great.

Thank you,
BallbustingBatman

[volcan51]

is she is already your girlfried its an easy one, when you both are in bed put her feet in your crotch and ask her to kick you. and done.

The hyper slow shy method can work too, its your gf so it almost impossible that she says no

[rish]

I'm in the same boat. Been going out with my new girl for like 2 months and I just said to her once when we were kissing, but your knee on my crotch so she did without asking. Then I said knee me, she then stopped kissing me and wa like 'wouldn't that really hurt?' I was like 'no I'll quite like it' so we carried on kissing and after a few seconds she just kneed me, harder than I thought she would and I caved it. She then felt super bad and was like she's not gonna do it again, even though I told her I liked it. That was last week, despite that yesterday when she sucked me off she still gave my nuts a few flicks, but she refused to go hard :/

[aus bustee]

all you can really do is ask mate, and if she wants to try it she will :) I think you got this though!

[BallbustingBatman]

Thank you, However, she is super nervous about trying new things in bed too, so I wouldn't want to overwhelm her with this, so without like doing anything huge, would maybe just hinting or suggesting it be a good idea?

[Liquid Metal]

Like said above, if she's joking about it and teasing you, then she's checking to see your reaction, she can't read your mind, you are going to have to tell her what you want, just like she might have to tell you what she wants.. You've already done the hard part, by bringing it up, and telling her you like it. From here, the rst is easy, she didn't freak out and bolt, she's teasing and joking about it to see if you are serious, she's not confident enough to just haul off and feild goal kick you next time she sees you, she's going to look for reassurance, and obviously isn't totally repulsed by it.

[Nick]

listen to this man.

[BallbustingBatman]

Exactly what I'm looking for, thank you so much

[Paul Baker]

Hey Bman, goodluck to you and everyone else who's been in that boat. 

I've been there a few times myself and they've all ended well for both of us. Explaining it is a little hard, but I like to say that neurobiology is complicated and we're all wired a little differently. I think women show a little more diversity in what they like ( you might be able to mention her quirk/kink if she has one) Then you can say I happen to experience impacts to the balls as pleasurable to an extent, and I'd like to figure out exactly what turns you on the most.

For actually trying it out I like a squeeze. You just agree to tap out when it gets to be too much so she won't hurt you. During that squeeze you can calmly do something she enjoys, while telling her how nice everything's feeling. After a couple of squeezes when she sees how you enjoy it you can go ahead and ask if there's anything she'd like to try, and take it from there. 

[justaboy]

If she already knows you like it and she hasn't run for the hills, then the hard part is done. Straightforward is the best approach; just say something like "So you know how I like getting my balls busted... do you think we can try that out?" If she has any uncertainties-- if she's scared she's going to injure you or that you'll get mad-- just reassure her. Tell her to try out at least once, if it's too hard you'll let her know, if it's too soft you'll let her know, she can stop at any time, etc. As long as she knows that the situation will be under control.

And then if she agrees, another suggestion that I'd give you: Always provide positive feedback. If it's too soft, compliment her, then ask if she's okay with doing it again a little harder. If she ends up going too hard, at least make sure she thinks you enjoyed it. I remember the first time my gf went too far I was on the floor moaning, and when she got scared and asked if I was okay I just said something like "Oh God, yes!" and told her I loved her so much for doing it. Made her feel better about it. Once you have a rapport and a rhythm, then you can start giving suggestions for improvement without fear of her withdrawing.