Guys: Is it the pain or the humiliation?

[Ballbuster_X]

I know this is a basic question, but this discussion always has room to take place again :P.

But, guys: Are you into ballbusting because you like the pain of being hit in the balls --

or are you into it because you like the humiliation of beng "beaten up by a girl"

...Or something else?

Please share.

[Mike Brown]

It is a combination.

Mostly the pain, but it has to be inflicted by a woman!!

[Tyler Durden]

It is purely humiliation for me. But once you actually start getting kicked alot, you start to associate the pain with the pleasure of being humiliated, so the pain won't hurt as much. Whenever i go long periods of not being dominated by a woman in that way, my tolerance goes way down and I have to get that tolerance built back up again. Alot of times I wish it wouldn't hurt so bad, but that is the only way a girl can overpower me so I won't have to act and make the fantasy seem more real, so it's a catch 22, lol.

[Tender Boy]

It's only a little bit about the physical pain, which I find interesting and for me is mixed with a little (physical) pleasure even from a hard bust.  Maybe I'm unusual that way, but there is always some pleasure mixed with the painful sensation.  Still, this is not what's most important.  

To illustrate that point further, if I were to bump into something and accidentally rack my own balls painfully, there would be no joy in it even though the sensation is there.  It is only appealing when a woman delivers the blow.

Which brings me to say that the humiliation is more significant.  I very much enjoy that women have this power over men, and therefore over me, that my physical manhood is vulnerable, that women know this, and that a woman who puts her mind to it can get me with a good kick or knee and really make me feel it.  She doesn't have to be an Amazon warrior either.  She can be a very normal, average woman yet be quite able to strike my testicles effectively if she wants to.

I have never dropped to the ground from being busted (and I've been kicked hard) because I think I have a fairly high tolerance, so maybe in my case it doesn't quite "work" in purely practical terms, but I still find very appealing the idea that it's at least potentially possible that I could find myself down on my knees, holding my throbbing, aching balls, gasping for breath, looking up helplessly at the smiling woman who just dropped me with a well-placed kick.  I am both thrilled by and slightly afraid of the thought that I could (at least in theory) be totally unable to keep my composure, that I could not hide from the fact that I've just been overpowered and (sexually?) humiliated by a woman and it's my balls that she kicked and hurt so much that I can't even stand up, much less walk or do much of anything useful.  For a man to be so quickly reduced to such powerlessness by a woman is humiliating, yet fascinating.

If she punched me in the nose and I fell down, somehow it just wouldn't be the same.  It wouldn't have the same feelings of sexual power.

But what matters to me the most is a combination of the above, which is a theme of female (sexual?) power, which really appeals to me.  It's both symbolic and palpably real that a woman can - at least in a certain sense - control a man by his balls.  She can give them a good whack, and it's not terribly difficult for her to do, and he is going to feel her strength in a very intimate way.  

[volcan51]

nice explanation, i fully share what you have said

[volcan51]

despite the think of "rare" that always carries bb, for me it's completely natural, feminity in my opinion it`s in a general way about control, woman control themselves, their enviroment and a lot of more things, controlling man it's just a part of that. Manhood it's again in my opinion about strenght and intensity.

I like the struggling between the female control and the male triying to resist. It doesn`t need a hit, it`s our weak spot an the woman just need been sneaky (i like  (not strength) enough to place a hand or feet in the groin and she can control.

If she control me easily i need be more man, ballbusting for me has a bit of self improvement can i take more? (in ma case ¿can i take one?)

The guy want to resist he (as i) knew that even a little girl will sent him to the floor with one kick but against his gf or friend he want to take more.

Personally i also like humilliantion, and the most the idea of been defenseless, be beaten by a girl,really beaten without let her win , after the kick one it`s defenseless she could do whatever she wants (feet in throat, hands in eyes) (hoping she will be merciful).

[Foo Bar]

You could say it's about humiliation - tho I'm not sure that's quite the right term.  It's about a feeling of physical, very sexual, vulnerability to my girlfriend.  The pain is an essential part, because that's how she exercises her control, and the intensity of the pain adds to the intensity of emotion. 

More than just the pain itself, there is also the way ball busting "takes away" a man's strength.  I'm a fairly big, strong guy so invariably my girlfriends are much smaller, weaker, more delicate.  That she can use my testicles - the very things that make me a big, tough guy - to render my physically helpless to her, is always a huge turn-on for both of us. 

Is ball busting necessarily humiliating?  Well, when I'm writhing in pain at a girl's feet, it's hard not to feel humbled.  But it's a consensual bust - she hasn't "lowered my pride" by kicking me.  Actually in a way I tend to feel quite proud after having my nuts beaten by a beautiful & intelligent girl. 

But a girl can choose to humiliate her bf when she busts him.  Typically for me this has come in the form of cockteasing combined with ball breaking.  When she plays with my cock 'til I'm at the edge of orgasm, literally begging her to let me cum, then brings me back down with a merciless testicle beating - yeah, that's humiliating.  Or when she makes me beg for yet another kick when I'm already sore, or else I have to sleep next to her without fucking her.  I guess for me, blue balling + ball busting = humiliation.

[2w2exocmflxjn]

For me, it's really both. I absolutely LOVE the pain that courses through my body, and the helplessness that comes with that. On the flip side, I love a girl that will boast about how she beat me up, and with that, blackmail could come into play which is another fetish of mine!

Also, I really dislike small children. I don't want children at all in the future, and the risk of having my balls damaged actually encourages me to pursue this fetish.

[0jubysmgc2prd]

I guess my brain could never reconcile the fact that women, who I can physically overpower so easily, actually have so much power over me emotionally (the only thing that actually matters in today's society, given that I would never rape anyone). So, to resolve the conflict, my scumbag brain decided that I should be into ballbusting ¬¬

In short, for me, it's neither about the pain nor the humiliation (as I don't enjoy either). It's all about power.

[Kenny Chen]

Its a mixture of the pain, and the feeling of being empowered by a female that makes it so amusing & fun!

Especially when a female look down on me after kicked me in the balls, that is just humiliating and exciting!

[Andrew R]

To me it is being beaten up by a woman.

A man hitting me in the balls would do nothing for me - except probably make me angry!

I like that a woman can cause a man so much pain however I wouldn't like the pain of being punched in the face for example. I suppose the genitals is a very personal and exclusively male region.

[3p8pl75j3t7lh]

To me its about the humiliation of how easily a girl can hurt me with one kick.  The fact that if they hit me anywhere else it wouldn't hurt so much, but once they attack my manhood its over

[LoboRJ]

I like to see the pleasure on her face, how she gets excited with evil that it is doing.Her pleasure is my!