Clothed Ballbusting

[Joe | Violet]

All right guys hear me out on this one; I can see the appeal of nude ballbusting. I can see the appeal of a guy getting his ass completely handed to him by some mistress while she whips him into submission. I get that less clothes can often be more enticing. A big thing that I come across often is "Why doesn't Joe just wear boxers", or "Can these two just get naked already?" Even stuff like "Why is this video even on PornHub, there's no nudity?!" Well.. it's for the same reason videos like ours, Scarlett's, WeeZ's, Eric/Chaiyles and any person who has posted on this site posts on porn sites: Our shit still gets flagged and taken down everywhere else!

How infuriating is it to be that in-between level of ballbusting? That level where both members are clothes but the video is still erotic. There's clearly an appeal for casual ballbusting because it's relatable. Most of us can put ourselves in the position in a video of a couple just having fun and messing around. Ballbusting for me personally is so hot to watch simply because it's happening; because it's so taboo, and humiliating it just gets me rock hard. It's a fetish, and a huge turn on to most of us by nature. That's the reason it always gets banned or flagged or taken off every website except porn sites. Yet somehow people still find a way to tell us clothed BB isn't appealing, or "doesn't belong" on a porn website. I've even had people tell me "What's the point of making ballbusting video's if you aren't going to have your junk hanging out?" I think maybe that's why KITG is so important. It's that amazing middle ground where most of us really enjoy watching a girl in a sexy outfit just blast a guy in the balls in a casual outfit he would wear just walking down the street.

We gotta respect people's comfort levels. Even some paid BB content exists where the man, woman, or even both won't even show their faces. We're a pretty small community if you think about the grand scope of what's normal. Violet and I have ALWAYS been open about what we are and are not comfortable with, and we exist because because there is already so much nude content out there it's banana's. So many dicks floppin' around on clips4sale, I just don't want mine on the internet. My "package" isn't super impressive but Violet's ass and legs are, at the very least to me. And she can show that off in spades in our videos. My tolerance gets me back up and allows me to handle more punishment, and I think these things are what we have to offer as a clothed BB brand.

I guess what I'm saying guys is there's a variety of ballbusting, and all of it belongs. If it doesn't appeal to you, get out there and make your own. If you can't, just be patient I'm sure content will be made to your liking. Commission someone to make a video if you have the money. If you can't deal with any of the above, the reality you're kinda sol, but that's life. Criticism is a part of life and I'm happy to respect the opinion of others. This is mine, and I really hope I can be respected too. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Cheers KITG!

[Allen Witts]

I rate 20/10, just sayin'.  On pretty much every count. 

[Joe | Violet]

I actually forgot I made this post, so I read through all the responses and it's a lot more well received than I thought it would be. I get so much backlash for making clothed stuff, but it's people like you guys who make the experience that much more fun. Honestly thank you to everyone who voices their opinions respectfully, I loved hearing what you all had to say. I can't tell you what a huge weight off my shoulders is it to just read that even a few people share my view on clothed BB. Seriously we love you guys.

[Scarlett and Vincent]

"plz show bobs and vagin pls yes" "Why not show your HARD PENIS???" 

Vincent here..
Such rude people! Personally, I have always loved all the clothed amateur stuff that was posted on KITG. People need to stop telling us how to experience our sexuality. If you want to watch naked men being kicked in the balls by naked escorts, there are plenty of videos like that. 

Me personally, I love your videos Joe and same goes for many other great content amateurs here on KITG. Being clothed and seeing regular people (so no scary doms) having fun and kicking nuts.. THAT is my fetish, so I decide how I wish to explore my sexuality. Me and Scarlett got banned on Instagram, YouTube, Vimeo, Facebook and are not welcome on many other sites. It is 2019!! Come on people! Respect us and don't shame us for our sexuality. 

Luckily, I have met many friendly people here on KITG. Scarlett is also surprised by the huge amount of decent people. Instagram, Fetife and Reddit are filled with people who show no respect. 

KITG and our Patreon has many people who appreciate what we do and treat us good. So I personally try to focus on the people who do respect how I explore my sexuality. 

Great post Joe.

[Missy Gero]

I agree with others.

100% keep doing exactly what you've been doing. Clothed ballbusting is best kind of ballbusting. :)

And keep having fun, and keep being cute together, and keep those videos coming!

And the next time an idiotic or negative comment comes in? Have Violet focus that rage you know where. >:)

[Ted]

Full agree with you on this Joe. 

I love your videos and the way both of you are dressed. Dressed been the word it makes it more really for me. I like to role play with my wife, to think this is a real life situation we need to be dressed. You are both in club or bar and you've crossed the line and she is making you pay with your balls. Or she just loves to ballbust and she spots you looking at her across the room. Makes her way over to and has her fun turning you on and then ballbusting you. But alway dressed in something sexy. 

Not sure how you could make Violet and sexier!! 

If you enjoy doing what doing keep it up. Because there is an army of fans who love your work.

PS probably not sure this for here but I'll ask anyway do you Violet ballbust your and joes male friends?

this was something my wife loved to do because she knew I'd love it. There was 4 mutual male friends who would always mess with her up and she would bust them. I think they like it to because they would always leave themselves open. 

[Tim Bowens]

Joe, I agree 100% and that’s what got our Patreon shut down. Personally, I don’t want to see a naked dudes junk. At all. For me, the perfect scenario is the girl with a thong or gstring and heels and nothing else and the guy in tight underwear or even speedos. But clothed is good too. You and Violet do it just about perfect. I’d like to see Violet in a little less but I get why she doesn’t and let’s face it, I can’t complain at how she dresses lol. As for the demanding crowd? Go make your own stuff! That’s why I stopped. “You gotta post this way” “you can’t link from there” “you’re wearing too much” “you’re not wearing enough”. For people who want to see bb videos (some, not all) people are awfully bossy and demanding. And let’s face it. Good, original content doesn’t show up all the time. It gets annoying to make and people just say F it and stop, like me. And guess who loses? Not me! I’m still doing it and recording it. Just not posting. The people who cry for it but then complain or demand lose. Maybe I’ll start posting on c4s. Maybe. But as of right now? Meh.

[Ermac Zed]

You can't please all the people all the time.

You have a loyal niche community following from doing what you do in your own style and doing it well. Keep up the good work, Joe & Violet!

[Nicole]

I think that everyone has the right to enjoy whatever they prefer. If you like clothed busting thats awesome. If you like getting busted naked then hey good for you too. No one has the right to tell anyone that what you like or enjoy is the wrong thing. We are all here because we have a love for ballbusting and enjoying sharing that with others on here. We are already a small community of people and we will continue getting smaller if we insult the few people that are into this. 

You guys are awesome and my boyfriend and I have enjoyed your videos and always found them entertaining. We will continue watching them so long as you want to continue sharing your content with us. Thanks for sharing with us. :)

[Random Dude In Ottawa]

you say your package isn't impressive?  Buddy, you've recorded some incredible video's, you guys are beyond generous.  Keep your clothes on: no problem.  If you want to throw a snowsuit on: I'm ok with that.  Your videos rock.  Keep em coming.

[John Ashton]

Judging by some of the comments that end up on the normie videos that have bb that occasionally appear on youtube there are some real weirdos who barely speak english into bb who have no tact, who leave some really creepy comments. It interesting that none of the patreon videos produced has been leaked. I think once you eliminate this asshole element, most people are pretty cool, respectful and thankful for the videos you guys produce.

I can only imagine the sorts of constant comments you get running your site.  I think from a marketing point of view, the entire point of the girl next door home made stuff is that it isn't obvious porn. As soon as the person is naked they are no different that the hundreds of thousands of other professionals on the internet who produce videos. You lose the unique selling point which is your not a professional, it a guy and his "bratty" GF shooting amateur videos.

I think in the end, you got to do what you are comfortable with, and what excites you as it shows in the work your produce. As an end consumer all I got to say is change is good, and although i don't think nude busting is the answer I think it's always nice to see people exploring new aspects of bb.