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**PLEASE NOTE: ONE-WORD ANSWERS WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED. WE PUT A LOT OF TIME INTO THIS WEBSITE, SO PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO FILL OUT YOUR PROFILE COMPLETELY. THANKS!** What Country are you from? How many languages can you speak? We have members from all over the world here; if English is not your first language, use Google Translate on our homepage.: I'm a 35 years old woman, I'm expat in Italy and I can speak Italian, English and a bit of German.

How did you find this site? What drew you to this site? Please take these questions seriously; it helps to enrich the quality of this membership and gives others an idea of who you are, to better socialize in the chatroom and by messaging.: Since I started practising martial arts, I discovered I'm a bit aroused by low blows. So I'm starting to explore this feeling and I'd like to share opinions with others. I started looking on various web sites about ballbusting and cuntbusting, and I found somewhere the link to this social network. I hope to find more informations about these topics in order to better understand my feelings...

How long have you been into ballbusting and/or cuntbusting? And... what was your first experience like? (Give Details): Since a few years ago I thought about low blows just as something to laugh about. I never tried to kick other people between the legs because I was instructed not to do so by my parents. I knew I had to strike a man there for self defense, but never had to do that for real. I think I discovered being into it since I started practicing JKD. Low blows are a fair game and I slowly started to be a bit aroused at the idea of busting both men and women. When we spar we always wear protection. But when we practice basic attacks we don't have protection. We have to try our moves in slow motion and light contact, but sometimes I like to make actual contact with their groins. Also, I never thought before at the possibility to attack another woman's crotch, and now I'm curious about that, too.
In my dojo I experienced for the first time a few low blows and some breast shots. Not too hard, but still painful enough to ask my sparring partners to stop for a while. I somewhat found this kind of pain arousing, but I'm not really sure I like to be on the receiving end ;-)

How many people have busted you or have you busted in your lifetime? How often do you have the urge to bust or be busted? (daily, weekly, monthly, yearly): I regularly practice JKD, which is a very self defense oriented martial arts. Low blows are highly encouraged, so I manage to give a good groin strike to my sparring partners almost every day I'm in the dojo. I've never counted how many people have busted, but during our training we wear protections, so I don't know if these count as busting :-) I discovered this martial art a few years ago, and I also discovered that I love attacking people in their groins. I won't call it a "urge", however.

Describe the feeling you get when the busting occurs (aroused, funny, empowered...)? Are the reasons for the bust out of self defense or is it for your entertainment? Do you have a busting buddy?: It really depends by the sex of the other person and by the context when the bust occurs. As a rule of thumb, in self defense I try to attack the groin of both male and female opponents whenever I have the opportunity. If my opponent is a male, I usually feel empowered after a successful groin strike: I love the idea of destroying both his ego and the source of his power. I can be aroused if the male opponent is hot: attacking his testicles is a way to control him sexually, it may me feel like dominating him. Against female opponents, I usually attack the groin or the breasts because I just want to quickly put them out. Sometimes I also feel a weird pleasure if the other woman is attractive. I feel like putting a potential rival out of commission by ruining her sex. Apart from self defense, sometimes I love to include some groin pain during sex. I like to grab my partner's balls so I can force him to do whatever I want.

What's your favorite part of a bust (the kick, knee, punch) the 'ooowwww', the drop, rolling around, the inability to breathe...? (Give Details): My favorite part is the physical contact with the other person's crotch. It's very intimate and personal, I'm aroused by the contact between my hands or my bare feet and their groins: I can clearly feel the shape and the warmth of their genitals, and the idea of violating their intimacy in such a brutal way sometimes turns me on. My favorite bust move is kicking with my bare foot, because my legs are quite powerful and I can deliver very effective low blows. I love the fact that such a simple move can uncapacitate the other person. Seeing them rolling on the floor and panting from the pain puts them at my mercy and this makes me feel powerful.

Have you ever seen someone hit so hard they passed out, puked, cried, lost breath, made funny noises, shivering on the floor...? (Give details on what you saw): It happened in my dojo a few times. Once I saw an accidental bust between two guys sparring. The other one kicked wanted to kick his thigh with full force, but his opponent turned his body and was caught squarely in his balls. He immediately dropped on the ground, crying and unable to breathe. Our sifu did his best to help him but he had to call an ambulance. The guy almost ruptured a testicle and had to stop training for several weeks. Fortunately he healed. I was not aroused at the time, I felt sorry for the poor guy.

Describe the most memorable or most favorite bust you ever experienced? (Give the background, the details about the moment of impact, both of your reactions, how you both felt afterwards, the injuries, you know stuff like this...): I had to practice with a new guy in the gym and I didn't like him from the very first day. I found him creepy and weird and I didn't like the way he looked at the girls. So we had to practice some grappling moves together. He seemed to me more interested at casually groping me rather than training. When rolling on the mats, I felt something hard between his legs and it confirmed my sensation. I quickly grabbed his balls and looked angrily in his eyes. We both know what was happening: I was not allowed to grab his bollocks, but he knew I caught a molester red handed. So if he had screamed for help, I could have expose him to my master, putting him in serious troubles. I just kept looking into his eyes, squeezing harder and harder. He began sweating and whispering "I'm sorry", trying not to scream from the pain. His face turned red hot and I kept squeezing his balls until he was not hard anymore. When I let him go, he rolled on the side of the mat, struggling to hide his pain to his class mates. I mocked him "Already tired?", I asked with a mean smile. I never saw him again.

What are your favorite ways to bust or be busted? (Choose as many as you like): barefoot kick, barefoot stomp, quick hard knee, knee hard & hold, quick punch hard