Why do you risk it ?

Questions: Why do you want your balls busted? What makes it worth putting them on the line ? What's makes you want to take another kick even though you fear it? What makes it ok? What If you lost one, what would you do? Would you keep doing it if you had only one?
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Permalink Reply by Melinda the Ball Breaker on December 29, 2014 at 3:35pm

Exactly, it CAN happen. It just surprises me that most don't think about it. Me and my husband had a similar conversation. If he said one day He never wanted me to do it to him again, them I would respect that. That isn't the case though, and to play my BB games I only ask that he is prepared to lose a ball, not because I am going to do it on purpose or anything, but because it CAN happen especially with the way I lay into him sometimes. It's part of the appeal, why I find it so hot. It's different when you out all your chips on the table; I love busting your balls, and sometimes I like busting them really hard, the consequences are possable nut loss ,no ifs, ands, or butts. Don't be surprised when it goes like a grape is all I'm saying. Be prepared. Now the sexist thing about it is this; it's not the fact that he is prepared to lose one, it's the fact that he is WILLING to lose one to fullfull my BB wishs. It's something I point out consistently, to scare him mostly but there is dose of reality in there.

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Permalink Reply by nick on December 29, 2014 at 10:27pm

This is incredibly sexy, Melinda. I agree that it's a huge turn on for me to willingly offer my balls to a partner to do with what she likes in order to satisfy her desires. In general, I find giving pleasure much more satisfying than receiving. By the same token, ball busting (which I love) doesn't really do much for me if it is obvious that my partner isn't receiving any pleasure from it.

Permalink Reply by Chefda on December 23, 2014 at 6:21pm

1) I like the idea of having my balls busted because I'm turned on by women who aren't afraid to hurt and humiliate me a little. I'm not sure how hurt or humiliated I would be though, as I haven't been busted yet. It's quite difficult to articulate it (possibly as a result of not having been busted), but I've liked the idea of a woman teasing me about my weakness whilst exploiting it (grabbing, kneeing, or kicking) ever since I was in my very early teens.

2) Not sure. I guess it feels like permanent damage is pretty unlikely (at least the mild stuff I'm into), particularly with safe words.

3) I can't answer this question due to lack of experience.

4) See above.

5) I thought I *had* lost one about a month ago. I was *ahem* relieving myself, I'd self-busted a few times, shifted position by getting up and sitting down again, and when I um... 'finished', there was more mess than usual (I'd seen several BB comics and read several BB stories where the destruction of one or more testicles results in more semen being ejaculated than usual, and like an idiot I thought that that might've happened), and as I shifted again, I didn't feel my right testicle against my body. I completely panicked. I felt my throat clamp tight, cold chills, the lot. Luckily, after checking again later to see if it had merely withdrawn into my body (I checked mainly out of desperation than any realistic hope), I managed to coax it out. I assume it got pushed up inside me the first time I shifted position.

6) During the panicking stage, I thought to myself that even if I *did* find my errant testicle, I should swear off my ballbusting fetish. Since then, well, I feel a lot more calm about it. =P

Sorry if this got a bit serious for everyone, but I've been holding this in after a month of being unable to tell anyone, so I'm grateful to Melinda for giving me the opportunity to bring it up in a more low-key way than just posting it as a status. ^^'

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Permalink Reply by nick on December 23, 2014 at 10:31pm

I feel like I think about this a lot but I never really force myself to come to a conclusion, so, first of all, thank you for asking.

I've been fixated on my balls, why they are there, and how sensitive they are, for as long as I can remember. I remember early on, thinking about how it was "unfair" that I had this disadvantage that girls could use against me. I remember being sort of upset about how media used to depict getting hit in the balls as a funny thing. I guess it made me uncomfortable...which eventually evolved into arousal. Maybe. I remember not knowing how it felt, hearing other people talk about it, being curious. The first time I felt having my balls struck was in the shower, as an adolescent. I wanted to know how bad it hurt. I gathered my fist and I punched myself in the balls. I don't remember how I felt afterwards. Obviously, I didn't hurt myself as badly as someone else might have. I was also in a situation where I was comfortable touching myself pleasurably. Maybe that's where it started. Maybe it was earlier.

I remember, not too long after that, touching myself to the thought of girls I knew at school getting one up on me by hitting me in the balls. I don't know if I was aware of why at the time. As I get older, I appreciate the idea of a woman (typically subjugated) receiving pleasure from taking advantage of the very thing that, in normal society, apparently is supposed to mean I am dominant. I like to think of myself as a feminist, meaning I try to work towards equality between the sexes, call out misogyny when I witness it, etc. It's a little difficult, because on one level my interest in getting kicked in the balls is entirely selfish. I ultimately get pleasure out of the pain. On another level, I feel like my being kicked is penance for all the crap that has been dumped on women forever, including by myself.

Ultimately, my enjoyment and my willingness to endure the pain comes from the look of satisfaction and joy on the woman's face. I think this is why a particularly exciting fantasy of mine is to be hit by surprise, without any provocation, because in a lot of ways, directing the time and manner in which i'm hurt feels like just another form of domination, and that is something that I am not particularly interested in. Of course I would like my needs met, but not at the expense of another's comfort. To sum up, I guess I want to feel a loss of control, or a transfer of power from me to my partner.

All in all, I'd prefer not to think about losing one. lol. at least outside of fantasy. I'd like to think that if I did, it would be out of a mutual agreement to do it. If it were an accident I think I would be a lot more careful, but I don't know if I could ever stop. I don't think I could ever stop fantasizing about it, that is for sure.

Wow, this is long. Hope it helped answer your questions a little bit.

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Permalink Reply by Silent Warrior on December 24, 2014 at 12:54am

It's a rush. The impact and the idea of offering my pain to someone who will appreciate it is intoxicating. Hearing "spread 'em" is hot. Hearing and feeling the skin to skin contact of a good barefoot bust is hot. Next up: I want to be busted by a woman in black, spike heel leather boots. I love the idea of the loud crack I'll hear and the impact I'll feel feel as the instep of the boot instantly squashes it's targets into the groin area. The idea of having the "Baby Giraffe Legs" after the impact is also arousing.