SUSAN ASKS: WHY DO YOU LIKE BB?

[Susan Bell]

Guys --
From a girl's perspective, it's hard to understand why you are willing to take such pain in the jewels. Of course it's a turn on, but why?
Do you enjoy submitting to female power?
Do you accept the idea that females are superior to males? (They are in fact!)
Let's talk.
Susan

[Low Wave]

I love that a woman can decide if she is going to give you the most pleasure you can have on this earth, or the most agonizing pain. I am not one of those that likes the pain. I love the look in a woman's eyes when she knows she has you completely, and I always hope that she chooses to give pleasure. But it also soo sexy when she laughs at how scared the man is before she decides.

[Gerry]

This is the best thread. I love hearing all these responses. I am going to have my next girlfriend read these and see her reaction. Are the women in this thread the exception or the rule? I wonder?

[Mr & Mrs G]

I don't exactly know what it is, but perhaps the fact that I am (not to sound arrogant) so dominant in every aspect of my life and completely successful, that I am lead to seek an escape from being in control or in power and maybe just be beaten (figuratively or physically) and have a taste of not being a winner or a leader or an Alpha-Dog.

[Joshua Hall]

Hola Susan,

Personally I think males are stronger than females. I enjoy getting busted because I am a big powerful man been lifting weights for about five years now and the only way a girl could hurt me is doing so. Hope I answered that well enough sorry for not buying into your female supremacy =(...look forwar to hearing back from ya.

J

[Matthew]

i just love the idea of submitting. im a decent size guy and being busted by a small girl and giving her the power really gets me going

[squeezed nuts]

Do you enjoy submitting to female power?
Do you accept the idea that females are superior to males?

I enjoy submitting to a dominant female. The idea that she has total control of my balls is a real turn on. Now for the pain, i enjoy it. It is a purely sexual thing for me. I have enjoyed the idea of ball busting even before i knew much about anything. Some women/men enjoy having their nipples squeezed in various degrees- its the exact same thing for my balls and has alot to do with my mood. Sometimes i enjoy just light (but firm) squeezes while fooling around but other times i enjoy having my balls kicked into orbit. The hardest i have ever came was while i was stroking myself and my girl friend was kicking me in the balls over and over again from start to finish. I had to stop jerking a few times to catch my breath and recover but the end was well worth it.

[Bret]

I don't like the pain but everytime a woman hits a guy in the balls she giggles and gets a glimer in her eye like she is the most powerful and sexy woman on the planet, that look is what turns me on. I will deal with the pain just to see that look in her eye and know that i have made her feel confident, sexy and in control.

I think ballbusting as a fetish is catching on fast and someday the majority of women will be controlling men by their balls (at least to some degree), I'm just ahead of the curve, LOL. The thing I really can't understand is why more women don't like it or at least admit they like it?

I'd love to chat about it if you up for it

[Knuckles]

hi there, figured I would jump in this conversation 6 months later. It is something exciting to see someone who is supposed to be weaker than you, take her foot/knee/hands and leave you completely helpless. I think its one of the sexiest and funniest things to have a girl slam her foot into my balls and have that lil smug smile like "men are so weak"
I enjoy allowing females to dominate me but hey, men are still stronger. Take care. Adios.

[Peter Ray]

There are many reasons for which guys are into BB. The main two are pain-loving and submission-dominance addiction. Mine is neither of them. I hate this sort of pain and hardly ever get excited with the idea of being dominated by either of the genders. From the very early years, almost from the moment when I knew what differs boys from girls, I felt not much satisfied with being a boy. I liked more the idea of having a slit between the legs than my boy's hanging parts, which not only seemed to me less attractive but as I very soon discovered, with the help of my sister, were so pathetically vulnerable. I envied girls, I wanted to be a girl and having my balls busted by girls and in their presence always meant for me just punishing those parts of me that made me a boy. I always provoked my sister, cousin and other girls to hurt my balls. I hated the pain, I wasn't ever dominated by them in any other way,
And even more I liked to watch other boys getting hit in the balls by girls. After sharing my envy feelings with some of the boys, I was only ridiculed by them, who declared they were only too proud to be boys and have boy's parts between their legs rather than girl's slits. As a result I was in the habit of provoking girls not only to kick me in the groin but other boys, as well. Specially those guys who were so proud of their not being a girl. For me it's always been a great, exciting pleasure and turn on to watch other males pathetically clutching their genitals after being busted by a female.

[Zwyx]

Wait, why exactly do you like it, then? Why'd you provoke your sister do it? Sorry if I didn't read closely enough, but I'm a bit confused by your post.

Peter Ray said:

There are many reasons for which guys are into BB. The main two are pain-loving and submission-dominance addiction. Mine is neither of them. I hate this sort of pain and hardly ever get excited with the idea of being dominated by either of the genders. From the very early years, almost from the moment when I knew what differs boys from girls, I felt not much satisfied with being a boy. I liked more the idea of having a slit between the legs than my boy's hanging parts, which not only seemed to me less attractive but as I very soon discovered, with the help of my sister, were so pathetically vulnerable. I envied girls, I wanted to be a girl and having my balls busted by girls and in their presence always meant for me just punishing those parts of me that made me a boy. I always provoked my sister, cousin and other girls to hurt my balls. I hated the pain, I wasn't ever dominated by them in any other way,
And even more I liked to watch other boys getting hit in the balls by girls. After sharing my envy feelings with some of the boys, I was only ridiculed by them, who declared they were only too proud to be boys and have boy's parts between their legs rather than girl's slits. As a result I was in the habit of provoking girls not only to kick me in the groin but other boys, as well. Specially those guys who were so proud of their not being a girl. For me it's always been a great, exciting pleasure and turn on to watch other males pathetically clutching their genitals after being busted by a female.

[Walter Evans]

Hello Susan,

I grew up in an era when it was just "accepted" that guys were stronger and more suited to fighting than girls. Imagine my shock the first time I saw a woman knee a man in the balls and watched him crumple helplessly to the ground in agony. For me it's the acknowledgement of male vulnerability, the realization that my balls aren't off limits to her, the invasion of my private space with her knee, foot, or hand (long squeezes are my fave). I'm not one of those seeking real damage to my plums, just enough pain to remind me that a woman can hurt me. Besides, I want to get back up so she can do it again.

[manofmischief]

Well, I assume I was abused by a babysitter or something before I can remember. I think the way I internalized it is that it is such a horrible and vulnerable, helpless thing that the only way to deal with it was to embrace it. Not consciously, of course, so that's just a guess.

It works, though, sort of. Whereas most normal guys are afraid of getting kicked in the balls, I hope & long for it. So I turn a threat into a promise. I had this one girlfriend who habitually threatened to kick guys in the balls (although sadly she would never do it). After threatening me a few times and seeing the light in my eyes she gave up in frustration. "Forget it. I can't threaten you."

So there. I think it's a way of turning a horrible & humiliating weakness into a thrill.