Straight outta the gingerbread cottage.

[Gretel Wayward]

Yo. I'm using the site a lot more lately I thought I'd give this interview thing a try like a couple of people have suggested.

I'm an unsightly submissive/switch bisexual girl who's into sadomasochism and bondage and have an open mind for most freaky stuff. Don't be afraid to ask a question, I'll let you know if it's something I'm not comfortable asking and then no harm's done. So yeah, AMA or w/e.

[Liquid Metal]

Myr wife has similar fantasies, so we usually have her beat my balls up to get me worked up into a frenzy, so I can have my way with her, she loves that, so we both get what we want out of it. :D

[Gretel Wayward]

That sounds like a nice little set-up you got there!

[Liquid Metal]

Oh yeah, it's pretty good! My favorite, is her pushing her chest into my face, while she knee's me in the balls, and I'll usually use my fingers on her, as well. She keeps goin hard er and harder till I can't take it anymore, and throw her off, or roll her over under me, and have my way with her. LOL.. Sounds silly, but she loves it, and so do I! I have to hold her down, and stuff, or else she can knee me, or grab, and squeeze, or punch, so I have to really wrestle with her to completely overpower her, to where she knows she is totally helpless, and can't prevent.. She absolutely loves it. SO, we both get what we want. 

[Liquid Metal]

The other one we do, is similar, where she teases me, and acts like she's gonna do some stuff with me, but then cracks me with a knee as I come close, and kinda acts like she's playing hard toget, til I can't take it anymore, and throw her down, or up against a wall, and again, she can grab 'em, or whatever, and try to stop me, but she is wanting me to go crazy and jump her, LOL.. 

We unfortunately can't do this stuff often, with 4 kids, and it does take quite abit of energy!!

[Gretel Wayward]

Sounds like a lot of fun when you've got the time though. Good for you! ;)

[don_coglioni]

Hi Gretel,

I get it that you are more into being on the receiving end but say you like the idea of doing it to a partner 'vicariously'.
So would that be with a female partner, where you really can imagine what it feels like, or a male where conventional wisdom says are far more vulnerable ?
If you did a mutual session with a guy does it worry you that the greater vulnerability of the balls would tend to dominate the proceedings ?  Would you want to even things up somehow ?

[Gretel Wayward]

I can appreciate the pain more thoroughly with a girl because I know exactly what it's like (in theory anyway, I haven't ever been with a girl who was particularly kinky). But for a lot of people on here they seem to like more than just the pain, its the feeling of vulnerability that comes with it and that's something I can definitely appreciate whether it's with a boy or a girl, so whether I can relate to the pain perfectly isn't a deal-breaker.

I don't mind things being uneven. Having a mutual session (where we both hurt each other, is that what you mean?) is an interesting idea but I most like being completely in control or out of it. It just so happens that balls would help me be in control quite a bit!

[don_coglioni]

Thats interesting,  not sure how the statement that you like being in control fits with your earlier statement that you like to be on the receiving end,  unless you mean that whatever the scenario that you are 'playing' you want a safety net,  which i guess most of us would agree with.

But interesting that you don't see the uneven nature of the pain as any kind of obstacle to you enjoying being on the receiving end.  So you arent worried about feeling a bit neglected as your partner is rolling around moaning about his aching balls !  But I guess there are ways to even things up in the level of intensity.

personally i have only ever done mutual with women who werent really into pain,  and the fact that a moderate blow would hurt me but leave them laughing was part of the fun.

[Gretel Wayward]

Well a guy's balls are a useful tool to take control of him, but I mainly like the idea of being completely in control or being completely taken control of. If I were with a guy and wanted to take control of him, then a firm hit to the balls is a good way to start it. At the same time, if I were to take a strong hit to the groin or boobs then I'd probably be out for the count at least long enough for my partner to take advantage of the situation, even if they happen to have balls.

[Smoo]

I've talked with a few people who particularly like MM or FF (whatever they are) because of the shared experience and being able to relate.  It also helps keep both sides in line because whatever you do, there is always the chance of payback that you may not get in MF.  I've done mutual MF before with a gal from this site and it was pretty cool going back and forth as well.  She's the only gal Ive been able to bust back and it was def cool.

[Gretel Wayward]

There is something I enjoy about being able to know exactly what sort of pain I'd be inflicting on another girl, but at the same time there's something a little thrilling about being able to hurt a guy in a way that I can't ever properly relate to. I can only hope the hypothetical guy in question would feel the same way.

And I'm glad you had fun with that!

[don_coglioni]

well i havent done MM since my adolescence a long time ago,  but i must admit i would be curious to try even though i am otherwise completely straight. it would be interesting to compare experiences in that way.

But the idea of receiving pain in my balls inflicted by someone for whom it is utterly mysterious is super super hot.  and to do the equivalent to her and have her laugh it off is icing on the cake.

I havent ever had the good fortune to be with someone who actually wanted me to hurt her too.

I guess that could be fun as long as she doesnt mind retaliating with some good shots to the bollocks.