Mrs. Nate's Interview

[QueenNate]

If You all have questions, feel free to ask and I will answer the best I can, when I can. :)

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

How hard have you busted your husband, how did he react?

[3dk1tm29uk1v2]

Hi, after reading your husband's blog post, first time busting I think or something like that it was called, he says you were really reluctant, and so forth to get into this.. 

What got you past this feeling, and what put you at ease with the idea of busting him for your pleasure?

My wife will do plenty of squeezing, and actually does a really good job in that area, but seems really afraid of kneeing, kicking, or punching, etc.. She seems very afraid to damage me. 

What would you suggest, understanding (of course) that you and her are individuals, and what works for you may not be the same for her? 

Another question. 

There's a lot of women who I think would be awesome ball busters, but because of their intense personality, or manhating attitude, I don't think I would like being married to them. My wife and I compliment each other very well, and I think have a great marriage, and I can't help but wonder if the very qualities I really like about her and living with her as a marriage partner make her not a very eager ball buster?

That was the intro to the real question, the real question is, did you find your attitude/respect toward your husband, outside of ballbusting , or the bedroom in general change? Did you find yourself having less respect for him, or did you value the fact that he's willing to give you this power over him?

Just trying to understand what the barriers are psycologicaly, and wondering if a man looses respect in the eyes of his wife/partner/etc if he likes her to take some charge in the bedroom? Where there any changes with you and King Nate? 

[QueenNate]

I was reluctant at first. First was that ball busting went against every thing that had been ingrained into me since i was little (well littler) Don't bite hit kick punch don't be mean period. It's ingrained into you from mothers and school administrators and general society. Also there is a overall view point that most women have about a marriage treat him like a king and like an equal same goes for hurting them like i said ingrained. So at first I questioned if KingNate was even serious about wanting me to kick him in the balls. I questioned his sanity and then mine because i was actually considering doing it. When i did decide to do it I thought that if i did kick him it would be too painful and he wouldn't want to do it again. I was astonished when he crippled in pain and my first thought that he would be mad at me for hurting him and get upset and yell at me or something. Yet he didn't he had a few pained chuckles and a grin from ear to ear. I was equally astonished to feel a thrilling sensation course over me from head to now sore toes. I liked it but i couldn't admit it to myself yet or to King Nate though i giggled and basically turned into a small child having a field day. The rest is history. So basically I was afraid. What got me past this was his complete truth about it he told me he wanted me to kick him knee him or what ever in the family jewels i was unsure about it but my complete trust in him helped make my decision to try it. he was serious and honestly i was curious. I was also awed that he trusted me enough to let me do something like that. something changed after the first kick something clicked and made me...me again. I thought much like you that i would look down on Nate or think him less of a man but after that first kick i think i started to verge that way and look down on him but not in a bad way it was in a kinda "wow i hold this power over you that i can see and feel and you like it" kinda way i felt empowered i still wasn't certain that he might not change his mind later. And so i stayed reluctant. but eventually that faded too and it just came natural to both of us like we should have been doing it a long time ago. Busting is a way for me to show my dominance and standing without belittling my Man but also giving me the confidence to stand up more outside the ball busting realm also. If possible i feel more compassion and respect for my husband than ever before. Does your wife know what you want? Has she specifically expressed her desire to not want to do that to you? Just talk to her show her this reply might help. Good luck Liquid Metal. hopefully she comes around. :D

[Melinda the Ball Breaker]

The most important question of all, do you like them in boxers or briefs? Lol