How many people have you told about your ballbusting/cuntbusting fetish?

[Johan Jonsson]

Hi there! I am a very shy person in general and is curious if you keep your fetish to yourself or if you are open with your friends or partners? I myself have kept my love for ballbusting for myself in the thought that others would not understand if they found out. I haven't had any girlfriends or buddies that I even dared tell. How have you handled it? How many people know of your joy for ballbustin/cuntbusting as friends/partners and how did they react when you released the secret? 

[Jim Dickens]

I have only told 5 people, all women who I had serious relationships with, except one, who was a close friend and FB.
The reactions have been similar from most. It usually starts out with surprise and a reluctance, or flat out refusal, to try it followed by slowing getting into it. And by "slowly" I mean it could take years for them to be comfortable with it.
It's strange though, the last two women I have dated started abusing my balls (lightly) pretty much the first time we hooked up. I was totally mind blown by the first one because I was totally in love with her and I never told her about BB. I thought she had the same fetish, so I was just going to let her take it as far as she wanted just to see how strong her fetish was before I told her. Our romance was short lived so I never told her, but when I first got with my current GF she was pretty rough on my balls and figured out that I liked it. I attribute this to her being a very observant person because she says, and I believe her, that BB is something that she never even imagined existed and would have never tried. She says that she has never hit a man in the balls in her life. But she has turned out to be a pretty brutal ball busted with very little direction from me.

[3lmm2v684srw0]

well i've told a couple of girl mostly friends however they all just stand there with a look of surprise and thats it. Often they think I'm a weirdo :( 

[Johan Jonsson]

I sadly think that's a quite common reaction. But I guess most girls are raised to believe that guys don't want to put themselves in that kind of pain.  

[Jamie Drea]

I have not told anyone, although I have gotten girls to do some light tapping during intercourse.. they never ask any questions they just get on with it haha

[Lexeme]

I used to be shy and clamped up about it so I know how hard it is to get past the shy/shame feeling. It can feel like an insurmountable wall. Anyway..

Responses have ranged from 'I'm surprised, but not really surprised' to 'That's the hottest thing I've ever heard' (relayed from a friend of a friend) with everything in between. Some friends responded by telling me some of their secrets and some of my friendships are a bit tighter than they were before. And yes from time to time, a little BB as well.

Maybe it all comes down to learning how to communicate. I've also changed how I look for friends as I hang around people who are more open to sexuality these days. Of course, I'd never talk about it with just anyone. I don't even talk about it all that often. However at the same time I've talked with quite a few people about it, when the timing was right.

[S1K rider]

I have mentioned it to numerous women, I find it relatively easy to bring up the topic of busting. I'll just say, "can you believe that women can actually get paid just for kicking a guy in the balls?" "I saw it online!" Then if they react in a manner that tells me they would do it than I take it further by saying, "we should make a video". Worked for me a few times.

[Johan Jonsson]

Quite a funny way to introduce it for the girl I have to admit that!

[Jim Johns]

I used to be extremely shy/embarrassed about it, but about 6 years ago I had a gf who was really freaky and set me free, so to speak.  Ever since then, I've told pretty much every girl with whom I've had sex more than 2 or 3 times.  I can think of two that have been turned off by it, but most got quite into it (and I definitely created a few bb monsters).  Honestly, that girl 6 years ago was the best thing that ever happened to me.  Gaining the courage to tell your lovers about your fetish, whatever it may be, is a gift that truly never stops giving.

I've told one male friend about it--we were talking about crazy fetishes and he got me to admit mine.  He said it was pretty vanilla compared to some others he had heard (most interesting one: a dude who could only get off--whether during masturbation or intercourse--if he was fondling a blown-up balloon with one hand).  

[justaboy]

I told my gf a few months after we started dating, and then at some point, she let it slip to our friends. Surprisingly, I'm not all that bothered by it. I've told no one in my family, but there was one time when I was younger when my sister walked in on me during a self-busting session. I'm not sure if she remembers it (hopefully not!).

[0wgk2n97omb5u]

I'd like to hear more about that. lol 

[0wgk2n97omb5u]

I've only told people online, mostly women. They're always shocked. Not many say they'd do it though. 

[justaboy]

My girlfriend was the first one I ever told. Unfortunately, a year or so into our relationship she confessed that when she and her female friends (most of whom are also my friends even before we got together) got drunk, she told them about all my fetishes, including the bb fetish. But to this day, none of them have ever shown any sign of knowing, so I'm hoping that they were all so drunk that night that they don't remember what my girlfriend told them.

Me personally, the closest I've ever gotten to telling someone was when I indirectly told a female coworker of mine who confided in me that she likes being dominated, so I shared that I enjoyed being dominated and when she asked what kind of things my girlfriend did, one of the things I said was "sometimes she kicks me in... places."