Afraid to admit it?

[Chris]

Hey everyone,
as someone who has been having thoughts of being busted fir a long time, buy have always been nervous to tell anyone, I wanted to see if any girls or guys who have an interest in busting others had the same reluctance to talk and explore?

Chris

[Chris]

Sorry for typos. Posting from phone (-;

[dvhour (Site Owner)]

Excellent Excellent Question sir!!! My personal experience... After college I was engaged to my college sweetheart and we dated for 5 years... there's no way in hell I would have told her, back then for two reasons... one because I didn't really know ballbusting was a fetish and two because she was way too traditional... however when we broke off the engagement I seemed to be reborn, it was around the time I discovered BB material online. I started reading stories watching clips and interacting with other guys from the bb community. Every single gal (13ish gfs) that i've been intimate with has done Ballbusting in some shape or fashion... so with any woman I date she will definitely be expected to try it between the 1st 2nd 3rd or 4th date. Only 1 gal I haven't ben with intimately knows she was an early partner with my USBBonline venture she did one set with her... oh and my boy the other coowner of usbbonline... he is the only male on the planet who knows... Now would i tell anyone else... to be honest maybe depends on the environment and the situation I was in... but just in regular everyday conversation... NOOOOOO ... this is some private shit and though I'm already considered a bit of a freak by many I don't think they need to know how freaky I really am.

So don't worry about telling peeps its very normal . :)

[dave anderson]

I have not met a woman yet who can read minds, lol, only those who think they can, dude , if you dont tell her then she will not know. Find a chick you can trust totally. If you cant find one to trust, save up your dough and buy a hooker

[ludo]

Also I have great difficulty to speak with a girl about my urge of ballbusting. Being shy certainly play against me but I'm not sure that girls like to be asked such things.
Of course they expect sexual advances from us but I'm afraid of being misunderstood. Unfortunately too many people consider this practice as a perversion and whoever does it is a pervert.
I do not consider myself and I don't want be considered a pervert absolutely because I do not think of doing no harm or disrespect to anyone. But then, once broken the ice, I have no problem to confess that I like to be beaten there.
Anyway I think I'm an incurable case of shyness..... Thought that once I was ashamed to ask even a prostitute that I had specifically called. lol

[Timmy Tamakeri]

It's definitely not something you can admit freely at a party - but with someone you're intimate with, it's easier if you ease into it.... "you know, it feels really good when you squeeze right here...."