4 ways I got girls to kick me in the balls (along with success rates)

Hey everyone,

So after years of being a lurker on this site, I finally decided to make my first post. I thought I'd share my experience and tips here to help out other people (I wish I'd known years ago).

Without further ado, here are 4 ways I got girls to kick me in the nuts through tinder, along with the success rate:

1. Straight up asking girls about ballbusting on Tinder: 0% success

2. Striking up a short conversation before asking to get kicked in the balls: 5% success rate

3. Striking up a long conversation and then asking: 30% success rate

4. Striking up a long conversation, meeting the girl, and asking her to ballbust me once we're at my apartment: 95% success rate

As you can see, once you put in the effort, most girls are completely fine with kicking you in the balls. However if you ask right away on tinder, it seems weird and creepy and you'd be lucky to even get a response.

This "research" had been made from memory with over 20 girls who had ballbusted me. This was in both the USA and the EU and did not notice a difference in success rate (although US girls seemed to enjoy it a lot more, EU girls seemed to do it only because they wanted to make me happy).

I hope it helps! and please don't hesitate to share your ways to get girls to kick you, I'd love to try new strategies

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Permalink Reply by D Rawk on August 8, 2021 at 6:49pm

I often get asked about this subject and don't really have good advice for you guys on getting other women to bust you but some of Thomas's research rings true to me. Social circumstances are the key. Having a relative stranger ask me to bust them would make me run the other direction. What 4 shows is that she knows him fairly well and is comfortable around him. Otherwise she would not agree to be at his apartment.

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Permalink Reply by Joe on October 14, 2021 at 3:04pm

That's interesting. But certainly not unexpected. The person has to be comfortable with you, have a connection and you need to be somewhere private.

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Permalink Reply by WutchaReturns on October 17, 2021 at 11:50am

Right now I’m on sugardaddymeet. It’s $50/mo (sucks) but I have access to meeting girls there. I’ve had past kickers refer new girls. In some cases I’ve given them a referral payment. One girl went on Bumble BFF to match with a lot of girls, and referred a few to me. I paid her for every lead that met for kicking. Word of mouth from other girls is powerful.